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The wifey and I had our first visit at a swingers club, it was so exciting that I wrote a review and sent it to my closest circle of friends. Please excuse the formatting, it changed when pasting the review into the post. Below is the original review:

If you are receiving this, I consider you a good friend and I know that you are in some type of relationship. This is not a mass email, it is being sent individually to people that have asked to read it, mainly my close circle of friends that are in relationships. Nobody is going to know about your business, I would not do that as a genuine friend.

First, here is the website of the place Deena and I visited; http://www.eyzwideshut.com

Please take some time to read and learn about everything on the site, there are pics of the facility, a faq list and even a forum that may answer many of your questions. It will help to paint a picture of what it is like, and my personal review will perhaps lend some credibility if you trust my judgment as a friend. I know it's not for everyone, but I honestly think it added even more spice to our intimacy, maybe it will do the same for yours.

Intro: As you know Deena and I are married and have been for almost ten yrs. We work hard and play hard. We are a bit on the wild and crazy side but nothing over the top. Our philosophy on marriage is that if we are in this for life, leave no stone unturned! Worst case, if we try something and don't like it, we don't do it again and just chalk it up as an experience that we can at least say "we tried it."

Being visual people, we had a slight curiosity about what it would be like to visit an adult oriented environment. We've done the gentlemen's club thing before, toy shopping, porn, etc. You get the idea as I am sure you have probably done the same or at least discussed it. So I heard from some friends up north that such places exist all over Florida. I did a little research, found the site in question and proceeded to look at it with Deena. We talked about it, and discussed our prejudices of what we thought it might be like, it is only natural at first impression (what do the people look like, will they hit on us, do we have to participate, is it clean, etc.).

So we had actually planned on going to Citywalk in Orlando or Ybor in Tampa just to do some dancing and hang out, then we thought....Eyz Wide Shut has a night club, we can go there to dance and just see what it's all about, at least our curiosity will be satisfied. I admit, this was WAYYY outside our comfort zone but sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind and Live....Don't Exist!

So we dressed like we would go to any other club, me; jeans and nice top, Deena in a nice dress. We get there about 11pm and the lady at the front desk explains the pricing and that there are two separate sections. Deena says "we will just go to the club section," which is what we agreed upon when we left the house. Maybe it was the couple shots of Patron I just had before we walked in, but I tell the lady "we will go to both sections." Deena looks as me like, what? I say "Babe, we're here now, might as well see what it's all about, if we don't like it we will just leave." The lady says, "how about we give you a tour and then you can decide?" So we go on the tour and are pleasantly surprised, still a little unsure and slightly uncomfortable/nervous, we decide ok let's give it a try......

Now read the review section and I will continue the play-by-play for the end!

Club Section: The club is very nice with modern furniture and décor, good music-very easy to make song requests. There is a pole in the middle of the dance floor with mirrors all around. Aside from the pole, it really is a regular night club/lounge. There is a large covered patio area with a privacy fence, they also have a pool table and air hockey.

Bar/Food: They have a full bar and the drinks are priced reasonably, however, me being me...we brought a bottle of Patron and put it in the trunk of our car, you can go back and forth to your car as frequently as you like once you have paid admission. They have a buffet included with admission; they served wings, shrimp, steak, fresh fruit, etc. When was the last time you went to a night club with a free buffet?

Crowd: Let me make it clear...these are outgoing, confident couples in relationships where trust and communication it not an issue! It is a "couple's playground" but people who CHOOSE to participate in swinging can do so. The rules of etiquette are strictly enforced, this means that nobody will give you unwanted attention or make you feel uncomfortable. The crowd was diverse in terms of age (mid-20's-40's), ethnicity (white, black, Hispanic, Asian), and all body types. Generally speaking, everyone there was at least average looking, in my opinion. Basically, any and everyone would fit in there without worrying about being judged.

Price/Value: First and foremost ladies are ALWAYS free! Men that are with their ladies have to pay, single guys have to pay even more and they are seldom allowed in. I think it was $25 for only club access OR $60 for "full" access which includes a $10 monthly membership fee. They also have specials if you get there before 9:30 or dress in theme. Considering the buffet and ability to keep drinks in your car, the price is commensurate with what a couple can expect to pay when visiting a typical night club. $60 per couple for club, food, etc....can't beat it!

Staff: Everyone was very friendly and helpful in putting newcomers at ease; the ladies at the front desk, the guys at the "back" desk, the security guys, etc. There is an attendant named Kat that gave us a tour prior to paying admission so that we could decide about entering, very friendly and knowledgeable.

Adult Section: There are metal detectors and no phones are cameras are allowed in this section, they have small lockers at the entrance to keep your phone, keys, etc. Dimly lit with some erotic artwork and sculptures, very tasteful. There is a long hallway with about 10 private "themed" rooms , each with nice furniture and accessories, fresh linens, towels, cd players, etc. Each room has a locked door and window that can be closed, leave the window open if you want to "put on a show" or leave the door open if you want others to come inside and watch, again no hanky-panky without express verbal consent and permission by ALL parties involved. There are showers....albeit unisex showers. The staff thoroughly cleans each room after every use, and will not allow anyone else to use them until so. They literally walk around wiping, spraying and disinfecting the whole time...very clean. There is also a large couple's lounge with a lot of leather sectional sofas, ottomans, chairs, etc. and a few large beds setup in the middle of the room with all the walls covered in mirrors. This is where it really goes down......

Now for the play-by-play........

Ok, so we enter the club section, it's nice, people are just mingling and dancing. We make our way over to the buffet and get some food then have a seat in one of the circular booths. Our nerves begin to calm, as we do some people watching and notice how diverse the crowd is. Some women are walking around and dancing in lingerie, not a lot but a few, these are probably the seasoned people. A couple asks to sit down with us...Uuttt oohh, immediately we begin to think...here we go! They were a friendly attractive couple, we made some light convo telling them this is our first time and they told us about their experiences at similar clubs in Orlando and Miami....nice people just having good conversation. The DJ (disc jockey, not me) starts playing a couple songs that we were feeling, so Deena (thinking as if we are in a regular club) asks them "you guys wanna go dance?" Deena and I looked at each other like......Oh No! Are they gonna think we want to "get" with them? We go out and start dancing, they didn't assume anything "more" about Deena's invite. See our assumptions were wrong.

So me and Deena like to do our thing on the dance floor, I guess our chemistry is pretty interesting, because even at regular clubs people often admire us. We can sense people really checking us out, but did not think much of it. We have another drink or two (forgetting that we had liquor in the car we could've went back to) and decide hey, we feeling good and it's a nice atmosphere lets go to the "other" side. This is around midnight when everybody starts to head toward the adult section. So we walk down the hall and see most of the doors and windows are closed, and a few are open, so by nature, we take a peek and see exactly what you think we would. Almost like watching a real life porno. Ok, again, outside our comfort zone but seeing other couples enjoy themselves is stimulating to "most" people, whether they admit it or not is a different story.

Then we go to the couples lounge, there are couples sitting around on couches and chairs just talking, relaxing and some are making out. So we have a seat and are chilling, absorbing the whole scene. All of a sudden we see a couple start undressing and get on a bed that is directly in front of the couch we are sitting on.....we look at each other like "are they about to do what we think they are?" That is exactly what they started doing! We certainly are not used to being around other people while they are doing their thing, but it was intriguing. Then another couple undresses and before you know it, in every direction couples are getting it on, hardcore! No swinging as far as we could tell, just couples enjoying their partners while in the company of others.

I won't "bore" you with our specific activities, but after a while "When in Rome, Do As The Romans Do!" Neither Deena or I are shy, in fact, give us a stage and we both tend to entertain which you probably already know by hanging out with us, just part of our personalities I guess. So we are doing what we do, honestly not even paying much attention to others (but the mirrors, sights and sounds are stimulating), almost like we are at home in our own bedroom. So this goes on for several hours in the lounge, couples are coming in and out from the club to adult section, some coming back again...several times. Now the only weird or slightly uncomfortable part was a guy near us saying "ooohh that is nice!" That threw me off! I am not used to a guy talking to me when I am doing my thing! He wasn't being creepy, just acknowledging what we were doing and then just walked away.

Long story short we didn't leave until almost 4am! Was it kinky? Yes. Were we nervous at first? Yes. Did we have intentions on putting on a show? No, not all, we were just supposed to see what the club was about! All those things running through your head when you envision adult/swinger clubs are not completely true. Ok, people do have sex, but it is not a creepy type of place and the people will not make you feel uncomfortable. Ok, so we like to watch people and are "light" exhibitionists, but you can still have a great time by yourselves in a private room or just people watch.

I left out a few very graphic and explicit details but I can provide those upon request....

We plan on visiting again within the next few weeks. I encourage you to go alone as a couple or even as a group of friends looking to do something a little crazy....ok, maybe it's very crazy!

It's just a night club with the option of some extracurricular activities. I tell you what, the Usher song "Make Love In This Club" has a whole new meaning now! Lol.

I will be happy to answer any questions, don't be shy J.

Thoughts?