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Hi everyone. I’m not going to pretend I invented
this as I found the bulk of it elsewhere but I thought it would be good for the
women members here and help us get to know a little more about each other. I tried to change it at first so
that the men good complete it too, but trying to do a one size fits all hardly
ever works. My own answers are in
the post immediately below; I think that’s the best way to do it. X
1. About how often do you have full sex?
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
9. What is your favorite
position?
10. How often do you
masturbate?
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
15. Do you enjoy porn?
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
17. Piercing or tattoos?
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
19. Spit or swallow?
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
21. Do you own any sex toys?
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
Here's my answer!
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1. About how often do you have full sex?
Definitely not enough. Once every couple of weeks, as I have no regular partners :(
2. What is your sexual
orientation?[/b]
Sexual. After being with male, female, and genderqueer partners I've given up trying to figure that out.
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?[/b]
Yes, love it.
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4. Have you ever received oral sex?[/b]
[/][= 14px; line-height: 22px]Yes, love it.[/]
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5. How many sexual partners
have you had?[/b]
5 women and 20 men
6. What is your pubic hair
style?[/b]
Shaved bikini line and trimmed bush
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?[/b]
Comfortable cotton hipsters. Unless I'm feeling sexy. Then I go for a silky thong or something with ruffles.
8. Have you ever had anal sex?[/b]
I have never been penetrated anally by a penis, but I have been with toys and have given anal to a man with a strap on.
[/b]
9. What is your favorite
position?[/b]
Either rough from behind on my hands and knees with my hair being pulled ensuring my clit has been properly stimulated (does wonders for my g spot), or on top. Depends what part of sex we're at and my mood.
10. How often do you
masturbate?[/b]
At least once a day, unless life gets really busy, then I got through periods where I don't.
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?[/b]
Yes
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?[/b]
Yes
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?[/b]
Yes, but never in an erotic setting. I recently posed for artistic nude photos for the first time.
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?[/b]
Yes
15. Do you enjoy porn? [/b]
Some of it. But lately I have been trying to use my brain to fantasize.
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?[/b]
Yes I go to the nude beach regurarly.
17. Piercing or tattoos?[/b]
Ears and nose
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?[/b]
Yes, unfortunately it was not as sexy as it sounds. The man having sex with my friend was quite conservative and got freaked out by me watching.
19. Spit or swallow?[/b]
Swallow, spitting seems like too much of a hassel.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?[/b]
I think I did once when I was sore and the guy would not give up. But really I don't see much point in it.
21. Do you own any sex toys?
Yes
22. [/b] If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?[/b][/b]
Usually on myself, but sometimes on a partner.
23. [/b]What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?[/b][/b]
I think that teaching people from a young age(both men and women), to be complex people, and to include their sexual self as part of that complex person would most benefit female sexuality (and male sexuality too!). If we all learned how to be deep complex people we wouldn't have the need for silly gender roles and stereotypes.
24. [/b] Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?[/b][/b]
[/]
1. About how often do you
1. About how often do you have full sex?
Almost every day.
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
Men only at this point. Think about women a lot but doubt I will ever do anything about it.
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
Oh, yes. Men only.
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
Yes, often - but too long ago - last week!
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
2 men
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
Varies...but shaved at the moment
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
Varies as long as the tops and bottoms match. I love beautiful, sexy underwear! Just knowing that I have it on and no one can even see it makes me feel good!
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
Yes. It's delightful and a totally different feeling than vaginal. I would describe it as a sweetly engulfing feeling!
9. What is your favorite
position?
I like laying face down with my chest on the bed and my rear in the air or I love to be the rider too with my feet forward and sitting on his thighs!
10. How often do you
masturbate?
Daily
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
Nope.
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
Thought about it a lot but no!
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
Not yet but plan on giving someone something special soon.
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
Never.
15. Do you enjoy porn?
Sadly, porn movies are laughable. Now if they could make it as erotic as an erotic novel - I'm there! Although I do like to watch a man jack off - without the laughable story line please.
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
No
17. Piercing or tattoos?
Earrings only.
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
No.
19. Spit or swallow?
Can do either. What I really like to do is play with it on my breasts so it's not usually even in my mouth.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
Sadly yes, but ages ago before I started having them regularly enough.
21. Do you own any sex toys?
Of course I do.
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
Both.
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
If people would just stop judging everything about each other and learned to express themselves as individuals and accept others as individuals. Admitting that pleasure is a good thing and we need it! I guess that's two things but both are important!
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
A little shy for that yet! We'll see how it goes!
Our answers to survey
Isn't it interesting how many of use have fantasties about sex with women? Is that very common?
Answers
1. About how often do you have full sex?
Never.
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
Probably bisexual.
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
Yes.
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
Yes (only once and too many years ago)
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
5
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
Shaved.
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
Thong or hicuts.
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
No.
9. What is your favorite
position?
I've never done anything but missionary so I don't know.
10. How often do you
masturbate?
Once daily at least.
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
No, sadly
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
No, even more sadly
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
Yes.
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
No. I wish I had ONE partner at once.
15. Do you enjoy porn?
With women. No men.
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
Yes. But I wasn't nude.
17. Piercing or tattoos?
Earrings only.
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
No.
19. Spit or swallow?
Don't know.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
Yes. Well, I used to think that I might be having an orgasm, kinda sorta, so maybe it wasn't fake at the time. Now I know I've never had an orgasm with a man.
21. Do you own any sex toys?
Lots and lots.
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
On myself.
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
Understanding ourselves better. If I'd known years ago what I know now.... But at least I know it NOW!
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
No. No.
My responses
71. About how often do you have full sex?
When my girlfriend is in town more than once a day
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
bisexual
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
yeppers
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
oh yes
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
5 male, 2 female
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
shaved, sometimes waxed for special occasions and when I can grow it out long enough
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
sexy hipsters
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
I had anal penetration, but not by a dick
9. What is your favorite
position?
my girlfriend and I laying in "missionary" position so we can both get each other off at the same time and feel when each other cum
10. How often do you
masturbate?
whenever I feel like it, some days more than once, sometimes only once a week
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
yes
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
yes
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
yes
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
yes
15. Do you enjoy porn?
when it's good
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
nope
17. Piercing or tattoos?
nope
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
not watched closesly, but it was in the open outside so people saw
19. Spit or swallow?
depends on the amount
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
yeah, when I was younger
21. Do you own any sex toys?
of course, mostly all vibrators
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
both, who doesn't like to watch a girl pleasure herself
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
acceptance of everyones choices, no more madonna/whore comparasins that us women do do each other.
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
no, I wouldn't enjoy recieving the graphic and masturbation comments that most women recieve. those pleasures are for certain special people only :)
1. About how often do you
1. About how often do you have full sex?
A few times a month
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
Bi
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
Yes.
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
Yes.
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
Just one.
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
Trimmed, nothing too adventurous
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
Bikini
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
No.
9. What is your favorite
position?
Reverse cowgirl.
10. How often do you
masturbate?
A few times a week.
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
No.
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
No, but I have fantasized.
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
No.
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
No.
15. Do you enjoy porn?
Yes, most of the time.
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
Not yet, but I would love to.
17. Piercing or tattoos?
No.
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
No.
19. Spit or swallow?
Swallow, although I really don't like giving oral most of the time.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
No.
21. Do you own any sex toys?
No, sadly.
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
n/a
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
Getting rid of anti-sex, anti-woman religion altogether.
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
I'm not in it; I feel weird about posting my bits for the world to see.
1. About how often do you
1. About how often do you have full sex?
3-5 times a week
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
i think Bi, but have yet to act out lesbian side
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
yep
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
yes
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
mm 4 boyfriends and 3 guys i guess were partners but not necessarily full sex in the end!
6. What is your pubic hair
style? at the moment freshly waxed all over with landing strip
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
6 pack from supemarket! due to cost :P i really like boyleg, good quality thick cotton, comfortable!!
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
yes
9. What is your favorite
position?
i do like the weight of a man on me, but i really like being on top..and doggie
10. How often do you
masturbate? usually once a day. if im living away from b'f even twice a day
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
yes
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
unfortunately no
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
both
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
nope
15. Do you enjoy porn?
sometimes, i prefer erotic fiction writing/audio over video image
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
no
17. Piercing or tattoos?
just the usual single set in my ears
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
no, unless masturbation counts with my man
19. Spit or swallow?
swallow..one less thing to clean up!
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
yes, but i havent with my current partner. faking makes me feel like i have something to feel bad about. ie not coming. over it
21. Do you own any sex toys?
yes. butt plug, loveballs and a cool pink vibrator from funfactory!
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
both
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
learning early that other sexual acts are just as fun as intercourse. not just for foreplay. and wank wank wank!
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining? yes im in it
http://dodsonandross.com/art/compact
What other sex acts do you enjoy?
Hi,
Glad your art is in the gallery. Thanks for sharing.
What other sexual acts are just as much fun for you as intercourse.
What really turns you on just thinking about it?
Naked hugs and ALWAYS loving to cuddle,
Bobby in southern California
Female survey
Hey, Bobby, if you're female and you ever make it up to Oregon...
Ali
survey
1. About how often do you have full sex?
3-4x week
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
straight, but sooo curious to touch/kiss/lick a woman (esp one in particular, but I'd never tell her). So I guess, closet bi :)
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
yes, men only so far
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
always, he's awesome. I say he's a lesbian in disguise.
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
I think around 10-12
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
landing strip
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
I'm into comfort, so normally nothing sexy. Although I have several pairs of sexy undies, but not thongs.
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
yes, he loves it. I think it feels great. (i think he'd like it too w/ a strap on) but haven't tried that.
9. What is your favorite
position?
from the back please
10. How often do you
masturbate?
3-4x week
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
no (sad)
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
no. I think about it constantly though and think it'd be amazingly hot with the right person.
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
long time ago
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
not really. traded partners when I was very young and unexperienced.
15. Do you enjoy porn?
yes
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
no
17. Piercing or tattoos?
no
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
yes
19. Spit or swallow?
mostly spit, swallow when in the mood.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
never
21. Do you own any sex toys?
yes
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
self so far
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
overall independence and freedoms in all realms of life. (empowerment in education, career, friendships/relationship...and I think sexuality empowerment will come too when you are iindependent and strong)
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
no, still shy yet. But enjoy seeing all the art. Especially the one's of women and seeing how I look compared to them. thanks for the site.
survey
1. About how often do you have full sex?
at least once a week
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
straight
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
yes (hubby)
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
yes (hubby)
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
5
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
shaved with a landing strip
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
thong
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
yes, twice. i came like never before but i got so sore
9. What is your favorite
position?
doggie
10. How often do you
masturbate?
once a month, maybe twice
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
yes
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
no
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
yes
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
no but i think i am slowly giving in to hubbies wish
15. Do you enjoy porn?
yes
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
yes
17. Piercing or tattoos?
no
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
yes to both
19. Spit or swallow?
swallow
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
yes
21. Do you own any sex toys?
yes
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
with hubby
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
teaching women that it is not dirty at a younger age
24. Are you in the Genital At gallery? If so pleasepost your link here. If not would you consider joining?
yes i am in it
Survey
1. About how often do you have full sex?
Whenever I can! Which ends up only being once or twice a week lately :(
2. What is your sexual orientation?
Straight with bisexual tendencies :)
3. Have you ever given someone oral sex?
Oh yes, I love to- its one of my favorite things to do
4. Have you ever received oral sex?
Of course :) It's wonderful
5. How many sexual partners have you had?
4
6. What is your pubic hair style?
Fully shaved or "landing strip" :)
7. What is your choice of underwear style?
Thong.
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
Yes
9. What is your favorite position?
Anything where I'm on the bottom
10. How often do you masturbate?
Multiple times a day- even if I've had sex that day.
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
Yes
12. Have you ever had sex with a woman?
Nope
13. Have you ever taken, or been in naked photos?
Yes to both.
14. Have you ever had multiple partners at once?
No, though I'm working on finding a 3rd person.
15. Do you enjoy porn?
Of course!
16. Have you ever been to a nude beach or nudist area?
No but I'd like to.
17. Piercing or tattoos?
Both
18. Have you ever watched others, or been watched having sex?
Yes, I've had a voyeur watch me.
19. Spit or swallow?
I prefer it on my breasts.
20. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Once- during one of my first sexual encounters, because I was nervous and couldn't come. Otherwise I don't feel the need to. If I can't come then I tell the person I'm with- in fact that happened today- its pretty rare though. A few days after my period it happens sometimes- or itll take a few hours.
21. Do you own any sex toys?
A few. A rabbit, bullet vibe, and one of those little leopard print slimline vibrators. I don't know if these count, but also some paddles, a cat o 9 tails, bondage tape and a ball gag (which I've yet to use)
22. If yes, do you use them with a partner or on your own?
Both- though I prefer to just use them on my own.
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
I think what would benefit sexuality in general, both male and female, is the realization that sex should be fun and enjoyed without guilt.
24. Are you in the Genital Art gallery? If so please post your link here. If not would you consider joining?
I posted something but it's not up yet. I guess it hasn't been approved?
I'm a sucker for a survey
1. About how often do you have full sex? once a day
2. What is your sexual
orientation? I am a 2 on the Kinsey Scale, or "predominantly heterosexual but more than incidently homosexual"
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex? every freakin day
4. Have you ever received oral
sex? more than once every freakin day
5. How many sexual partners
have you had? 19
6. What is your pubic hair
style? shaved to stuble to trimmed to shaved again
7. What is your choice of
underwear style? I believe they are called hipsters but I'm not sure. They're wide on the sides but very low cut and show a lot of ass cheek
8. Have you ever had anal sex? yes, but not in awhile.
9. What is your favorite
position? doggy or on my stomach
10. How often do you
masturbate? Less now that I have sex every day, but I try to fit it in where I can. Maybe about 3 times a week
11. Have you ever kissed a woman? Oh sweet baby Jesus yes, and I liked it
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman? Ya, but a man was there and it made it hard to focus on the vag. I'd like some alone time with a gal someday
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos? Several
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once? Just the once, I'd like to do it again. Many, many more times again
15. Do you enjoy porn? Why yes I do. I even work in porn (though not in it, if you know what I mean)
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area? No, but that hasn't stopped me from getting nude in public.
17. Piercing or tattoos? several piercings, 5 tattoos
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex? I have been watched but I have not watched others
19. Spit or swallow? Swallow, unless something else kinkier is requested
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm? Well sure. Do you have to go and make me feel guilty about it? Here's the thing: there's a lot og touchy, feely guys out there who think it's soooo important to make their woman come every time and they just won't leave you alone until you do. But I haven't done it in a long time, I find it's better to just be like "leave me alone, I'm done now."
21. Do you own any sex toys? I fancy myself a collector, but I need more to really call it a collection. I don't even think I have 10 yet, though I'm not sure.
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own? Both
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality? The end of laws based on sexual morality
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining? I'll be there soon...
Interesting
You sound like my king of woman, except for the spit or swallow part. If I can eat your cum, why not you eat my cum?
TerTer46
Answers
1. About how often do you have full sex?
Once a week or less. Not enough.
2. What is your sexual
orientation?
Pansexual
3. Have you ever given someone
oral sex?
Both men and women
4. Have you ever received oral
sex?
From both men and women
5. How many sexual partners
have you had?
30+
6. What is your pubic hair
style?
Buzzed
7. What is your choice of
underwear style?
Bikini or G-string
8. Have you ever had anal sex?
Yes and when the time is right I love it
9. What is your favorite
position?
Laying flat on my stomach or missionary with my partner holding my legs in a wide V
10. How often do you
masturbate?
About once a day; sometimes more, sometimes less
11. Have you ever kissed a woman?
Yes!
12. Have you ever had sex with
a woman?
Yes!
13. Have you ever taken, or
been in naked photos?
Yes!
14. Have you ever had multiple
partners at once?
Too many times to count
15. Do you enjoy porn?
Sometimes. Sometimes I think it's vile.
16. Have you ever been to a
nude beach or nudist area?
No but I would like to
17. Piercing or tattoos?
Piercings
18. Have you ever watched
others, or been watched having sex?
Yes, both
19. Spit or swallow?
Neither, I don't like boys cum in my mouth.
20. Have you ever faked an
orgasm?
Unfortunately yes
21. Do you own any sex toys?
Three vibrators, two dildos, one butt plug and other assorted.
22. If yes, do you use them
with a partner or on your own?
Both
23. What one thing do you think would benefit female sexuality?
Sex-positive, accurate information!
24. Are you in the
Genital At gallery? If so please
post your link here. If not would
you consider joining?
Yes!