Feeling a little insecure...

newbiehere's picture
Tue, 06/09/2009 - 04:31
Submitted by newbiehere

All I keep reading (both in the forum and of men's comments on women's pics in the gallery) is that men are loving the huge inner labia. They've even posted to go visit large-labia-loving websites... Other people posting to not get labia plasty and that "real women" don't look like clamshells or like "porn stars"...

Now this is REALLY starting to make me feel like crap. Because I have NATURALLY very small inner labia, and with all these comments that men are loving the large labia and telling large-labia'd women not to get rid of them, that they love to suck on them, etc. etc. etc. it is REALLY wearing thin on my self esteem.

If you all LOOOOOOVVVVVEEEEE these huge dangling labia, then where does that leave me?

http://dodsonandross.com/art/cowrie-shell

It's ALL GOOD

Wed, 03/23/2011 - 16:40
Anonymous

I have never seen a vulva that I did not like. All women are truly unique down there, and while there is diversity, I really don't have that much of a preference of one over the other.
As a man, I do admit I do appreciate facial beauty and a tight body. However vulvas are the great equalizer: for the life of me, I could not imagine a single type or look that I would not consider beautiful.

She said it! Men love all kinds!

Thu, 05/20/2010 - 07:35
Scorpio (not verified)

You know, it's funny how we can be more judmental on oneself, then others. I love nibbling on large labias and, in fact, any labia. Nothing is sexier than what "my partner" has.

That being said, I didn't thing anyone liked how my foreskin looked on me. Then two things happened: First, someone said would I love to suck on my foreskin. If so, you can count on others wanting to to. Second, be proud of what you have and walk around with that attitude. Suprisingly, my doctor taught me this when she begged me not to do anything to my penis. She liked how my foreskin was different from most that she saw and that's why she liked seeing me naked often, and even took me to a nudist result with her. Yes, my doctor.

No need for insecurity... none at all!

dunedin's picture
Fri, 07/31/2009 - 18:33

Newbiehere, I hope you have realised from the comments you have had on your gallery posts that not all men "are loving the huge inner labia". I think we guys find all vulvas inherently attractive; individual differences between them will hold different appeal for different men -- just as two men may agree that two women are unquestionably beautiful, but Man A may find Woman A the more appealing of the two, while Man B prefers Woman B. Long live diversity, in our appearances and in our tastes!

Your "cowrie shell" is perfect, just as it is.

dunedin at http://dodsonandross.com/art/celebrating-it-just-it

I agree with most of what is

Tue, 07/14/2009 - 16:44
guapasguapo (not verified)

I agree with most of what is said so far. Personally I'm more interessted in what she's saying than what her labias are looking like. When you've reached that point that you get to see such private parts there should have been somthing before that attracted your attention, right?

But I found it surprising to read that confession posted by a woman whose pic I discovered first and thought: "Wow"! But it's brave, writing so openly - adorable woman! :)

I only recently realized there's a difference...

Sat, 06/20/2009 - 16:48

I apparently have small labia too.  I honestly never realized they came in different sizes until I read it on this site.  It's not something I ever thought about.

This is funny because although I have had primarily heterosexual relationships, I have had at least 5 women lovers over the years.  I can't say that I ever thought about whether their labia were long or short.

In all cases we were lying down with parts spread to the sunlight and I never cared enough to think about it.  I was too busy trying to find out what they liked.  I have a love of breasts though and so I could probably tell you exactly what their nipples looked like.  Again, no real preference, just a thrill to see any and all.  I suspect labia is the same for those who love to look-happy to see all.

Beautiful pussy

starbuck's picture
Sat, 06/13/2009 - 05:54

Not all men are lovers of big labia. I like all shapes and sizes of pussy whether they have prominent lips or not. In fact, I just love pussies and I love to look at them and of course I love to feel one wrapped around my cock. I also enjoy masturbating as I look at picrures of pussies and that includes yours so stop fretting about how your pussy looks. For me, a woman doesn't need big fleshy pussy lips to make her pussy look attractive and desirable, she just needs to show it to guys like me to enjoy masturbating as we admire it.

Men love all kinds of cunts.

Fri, 06/12/2009 - 17:58

Men love all kinds of cunts. Some of us enjoy a specific kind more than others, others like the opposite.

I can tell you for sure that yours is beautiful.

Labia Lovers

Nina's picture
Tue, 06/09/2009 - 09:37

I know how you must feel, except - I am indeed the opposite, sort of. I have one very long labia, and one very short (the result of one-sided childhood play)

Your pussy is amazing; truly beautiful. The reasons behind all the long-labia lovers on this site is so that the rest of us aren't so envious of small inner lips like yours, not to mention the fact that we should all be more accepting of the different styles of vulvas. You have the entire porn industry on your side, which is where men are looking the most - which is why we all have low self-esteem!

Long lips are beautiful, short lips are beautiful. The human body is beautiful, and there is no reason to doubt this. I have looked at your pictures and...wow, what I would give to have a pussy as gorgeous as yours! So please feel better about yourself (look at all those comments on your pictures!) =]

For the Love of Lips

Joelface's picture
Tue, 06/16/2009 - 01:35

I agree with Nina that the large amounts of love for large labia on this website is largely attributed to the fact that we feel they don't receive the love they deserve in our culture. Most women with larger labia feel self-conscious about them because of myths and "ideals" which are repeated far too often.

In the end, I think the pro-sex among us love all varieties of labia, and yours are certainly no exception. Being Pro-labia means we love the small ones too, just as long as they aren't that way because of plastic surgery.

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