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I have no idea where to start. I just started seeing this guy and we had sex a few nights ago. So I was having a blast, hadn't noticed anything out of the ordinary until he told me he wasn't going to be able to cum. I was a little suprised but not freaked out or anything so I pressed a little harder as to why this was and he was suprisingly honest (maybe because I am a nurse), and told me he had hypospadius. As a nurse I know that all that means is that the urethra (where the pee and cum comes out, is on the underside of the glans instead of on the tip). But the severity can really differ from man to man. About 1 in 250 newborn males are born with hypospadius some get surery and some don't. So it is not that uncommon, but he never had surgery because he sayd "it's not that bad." He told me that he had never been able to cum with a girl and that he was incredibly self conscious about it. He is very inexperienced with partner sex because he has been so worried about this issue (which I really don't think it is one). He says that he can cum when he jerks off so I really don't think it is a medical issue but more of something in his head. So I have a few questions I hope you guys can help me with or just give your opinion.
1. Do you think it could still be a medical issue even though he can cum when he masturbates?
2. Do you think it would offend him if I asked to see it and see for myself what the severity is since I have dealt with hypospadius before?
3. What can I do to help him relax with me if it is all just in his head?
4. Do you think with more experience, he will be able to cum during partner sex?
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Betty's sitting right next to
Betty's sitting right next to me. Her first reaction was that he' inability to ejaculate during partner sex is related to his fear of getting a woman pregnant.
I would ask him to show you how he masturbates so you can see what sort of stimulation ejaculation requires. Start there.
And if he's offended then it's time to move on.