Am I The Only One

nanook's picture
Sun, 09/27/2009 - 04:19
Submitted by nanook

Am I the only one?

Partner sex is great. At times it can be a bit too much for me. A bit rough. I know what I like and prefer doing things my way, at my speed.

I do enjoy partner sex and all that goes along with that but I get more satisfaction through pleasing myself (masterbating).

I am just wondering if I am the only one?

I love sex by myself too

Mon, 09/28/2009 - 15:40

Because I can take my mind straight to the fantasies that work best for me. I can touch the places that work best for me, without having to explain or risk hurting my partner's feelings. I can go fast or slow down or stop when I want to. I love sex with my partner, but sometimes I get the most fulfillment from going it alone.

 

Sherman

not the only one at all

Sun, 09/27/2009 - 20:55

You are not the only one at all and I think that it is the same for men and women. Thats what is great about sex when you can enjoy it in all the diffrent ways. I love intercourse with my wife. I also enjoy masterbation alone, and when we make each other cum through manual stimulation. Enjoy all the diffrent forms of sex in your life!!!

No, no! You are not the only

white602004's picture
Sun, 09/27/2009 - 18:05

No, no! You are not the only one! I get also more pleasure for masturbation! I consider myself more solosexual Smile

you're not the only one. 

Sun, 09/27/2009 - 12:55

you're not the only one.  Partner sex is like dancing.  You have to connect, follow at times - lead at times, and let the energy flow through both your bodies.  When it's good, it's fucking fantastic BUT when it's not it can be a drag.  And that can depend on so many things that are out of your control.

I love how Betty always says that masturbation is the constant in your sex life.  It's such a healthy way to look at it.  Partner sex can come and go but YOU are always there for your orgasms.

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