Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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~~~So my wife & I are venturing into the land of the threesome. This will be our second go at it, & we want it to be so much better than the first. So I'll start with some backstory. So I guess this in part confession & part asking for help.

We have a mutual friend that we have know for years. All 3 of us knew that he was interested in my wife, & she had confessed to me that she had soem interest in him as well.  We are all very close, & joked around often about getting naked & crazy. It came to be a pretty standard in-joke that we were the key parts of an eiffel tower.  My wife & I have a pretty awesome relationship, & I LOVE to watch her flirt & tease when we are out on the town, so one night, as we were leaving a party at his place, she joked that it was too bad it was getting late, or we could have set up that Eiffel Tower.

In the car, we talked & thought that maybe we'd make more than a joke out of it, so we texted & called & said that if he was cool with it, we should give it a try.  He laughed & said come on back, so we did.  We ended up in his room sitting on the bed, laughing & joking a while until he said "are we gonna do this or what?"  He was convinced we were still joking, & wouldn't believe us until we both got naked. Then he followed suit & we were all sitting there naked & wondering what the next step was.

My wife took the intitiative to prove that we were serious & started to make out with him, stroking his cock while i stroked her ass & reached around to grab her tits.  Soon she was sucking him off while I was behind her doggie style, & everyone was having a good time. We switched positions a few times & I sat back for a bit & enjoyed the sight of my beautiful wife riding someone else's hard cock right in front of me.

Long story short [sorta], since we had all been drinking, things went a little rougher than they could have. We had no lube other than spit so he could fuck my wife in the ass, so that wasn't working. I came more than once & was getting worn out. And my wife, while she said she loved being filled with cock, was getting dry & sleepy since by then it was 8 in the morning. Our friend, who had warned us in advance that he sometimes goes long periods without cumming never did get off, despite my wifes amazing oral skills.  This was, to her, a bit of an ego blow. So we ended the night, all having some fun, but all feeling a bit like we were missing the last page of a book.

So flash back to the present. My wife & I have decided to give threesomes another try. This time we are trying to plan ahead a little. making sure there are plenty of condoms & lube & toys handy to help things along.  But we have some differences going into this because I have asked both of the others involved waht they were looking forward to doing, if they had any preference for positions, styles, particular sex acts that they wanted to try out. Neither has given any real feedback. My wife tells me repeatedly that she wants to be spontaneous, which I agree is a great idea, but I also think having a few things in the bag of tricks to spontaneously add to the mix is a good idea.

So I've been watching some videos online, critiquing & bookmarking numerous 3way videos to share before we actually go through with it. The others are laughing at me a bit, wondering why I am in such a party planner mode.

So I have basically 2 questions.

First, is it ridiculous of me to want to get some sort of agenda in order that will let all 3 of us get the most out of our experience?

Second, and most importantly, does anyone out there have tips, tricks & advice for beginning threesome participants? I mean we got the basics alright, but I'd love to suggest tsome positions or methods that will blow their minds.

Thanks to all who read through all of this, & even more thanks if you have some sage advice to pass along.

C