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38 Year Old Male Feels Rejected By Black Women

Fri, 03/19/2010 - 00:51
Submitted by allwaysreadytwo

I am 38 year old black male and I feel rejected by black women.  I have not dealt with a woman in four years.  I am sexually frustrated and masturbation is not fulfilling me.  I think that black women find me some how ugly.  What can I do.

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Still in dry spell

Fri, 09/17/2010 - 06:44
allwaysreadytwo

I learning to deal with my lack of partner sex better I have a sex toy that I use practice my stroke and control.  I would love the fleshlight.  I have posted a follow up I hope people read and comment.

I think there might be hope for me after all.

Sun, 04/11/2010 - 23:20
allwaysreadytwo

Yesterday I went out with a very nice woman.  We ate and talked. I had a nice time.  I think there is hope for me. Also I have someone else I can call to see whats up. So I think might be dating again. I hope this end my dry spell for a while.  Who knows I might just find Mrs.Right?
Yesterday I went out with a very nice woman.  We ate and talked. I had a nice time.  I think there is hope for me. Also I have someone else I can call to see whats up. So I think might be dating again. I hope this end my dry spell for a while.  Who knows I might just find Mrs.Right?

I'm in therapy it not

Sun, 03/21/2010 - 18:32
allwaysreadytwo

I'm in therapy it not working to build confidence. I feel less good about myself.  I am so sexually frustrated I don't know what to do.

Get some therapy. You won't

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Sun, 03/21/2010 - 17:47
Christina Cicchelli

Get some therapy. You won't find any women with low self-esteem. It's a turn off. If you can't have confidence in yourself, no woman will have confidence in you either (if they do it's only because their self-esteem is lower than yours). You're young so if you do something about it now then you won't have to waste any more time. Trust me. No woman can help you with this one. You need to pick yourself up by the bootstraps, admit that you need an emotional exercise, and get it worked out so that you can feel the self-worth that you so desperately need.

"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

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I don't know what to. I am

Sun, 03/21/2010 - 16:03
allwaysreadytwo

I don't know what to. I am depressed I am in Grad School and being lonely is affecting my work.

My confidence is

Sat, 03/20/2010 - 05:42
allwaysreadytwo

My confidence is non existent as we speak. I was 24 year old virgin.  I only had 3 relationships.  In High School and in Colleges I never dated.

What makes you think that

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Sat, 03/20/2010 - 04:17
Christina Cicchelli

What makes you think that black women find you ugly? Do you consider yourself ugly?

You desire black women, yes? Is that exclusively?

As a black woman, my specific tastes go to races of a different color because visually its something different for me. I haven't met a black man that I really liked; however I'm pretty selective when I date. And I'm only one person. I know many black girls who enjoy darker men better.

Check the demographic you're dating, where you live, etc. Check your appearance and style. Do you dress nicely? Smell nice? Breath okay? Where are you going to meet women? Do you have friends?

Sometimes meeting new people means changing your life. If you already dress nice and all that, then that's good. If you have a job and are a sincerely confident person, then awesome. But, the outside factors that provide you with a social life may need to change so you can meet new people.

It's just a suggestion but I hope this helps...

"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

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