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Society's proception is that all men want big breasted women, and I must admit as man I do like women who have a nice rack.  Personaly though I perfer the image of gorgeous shaved pussy.  I do indeed enjoy oral both giving and receiving and so i must be part of the minority.

I think this is more and issue of equality that of willingness to give oral.  Through out history men have been the dominate sex and as such have required women to submit to there will in order to maintain their dominace.  While it may be said that men are becoming more aware that in the bedroom their parner's please is just as important their own pleasure, but it still remains that in most casses that still seek to dominate espicaly in the bedroom.  So untill the day society sees women as mans equal the problem will presist.

Sorry for the sociology lecture but I belive it the best way to esplain why thing are as they are even after the women's movement.

I was interested to see the responses.  I have been to two restaurants since my original post but no luck so far!!!! The thought is quite lovely though.

I cannot imagine a session with someone without taking someone in my mouth or without receiving oral either.  It a shame some people are missing out on something very very special.

On a lighter note, perhaps anyone with a wife/lover who is not interested in oral should pop round and visit!!!

Pleasing my wife orally is one of my favorite things to do.

I give and receive. its a fun and fair exchange.

I think the disinterest comes from our lack of acceptance and knowledge of our vulvas. We think we're dirty down there...we smell...etc etc.  Female sexuality and our need to get off just isn't acknowledged in our culture AT ALL.

There's no American Pie coming-of-age movie where a young girl rubs her clit on a cherry pie.  Name one scene in a movie where there's a woman getting her clit sucked under the table at a restaurant - seen that blow job scenario a million times.

Add the slut stigma, not wanting to get pregnant, lack of access to contraception, the abortion debate, and you get women who are completely separated from their bodies. 

All I can do is point to the name, I guess. :P

I've been with women that weren't into it, including my current gf who only ever let me do it properly once (she's always been self conscious about her body), and I've been with women that I just didn't get the urge to do it for, or with whom I simply didn't get around to it. (You know how sudden hookups can sometimes be. Just for reference, they didn't go down on me either.) I think it's about the same as giving head, really. I've known enough women who were hesitant to suck a dick, or who even refuse entirely. Although I'd prefer "refuse entirely" over "I'll do it, but I won't like it and neither will you".

Abstinence makes The Church grow fondlers.

Dan Savage says that if the model you purchased doesn't come with oral, bring it back to the dealership.

Me personally, I'd love the opportunity to try it, but the wife isn't interested.

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