That is beautiful, thank you for sharing. I love the optimism and the sincerity.
I encourage questioners to read some of the already posted answers under ASK DR, BETTY on the nav bar. C'mon gals and guys, don't be helpless and seek the information you need instead of waiting for MaMa to spoon feed you.
Hi, I am 28 and the only way I have ever orgasmd is on my tummy, moving my legs in and out and clentching my bum cheeks, it takes me a couple of minutes to orgasm and it lasts about 2 seconds.... I have tried lying on my back and using my fingers but i feel like my clit it too sensitive to be touched and it makes my legs twitch, Ive tried doing it gently and sometimes feel as though im going to orgasm but it never happens. After having sex sometimes when my partner cums in me i get a twiching feeling on my clit and it gives me the urge to need to orgasm so i have to ask him to leave the room so i can hump my bed lol
I really really want to be able to orgasm on my back using my fingers so that i can invole having an orgasm into my sex life with my partner.. wethers i just do it myself during sex or not or maybe orgasm off my partner touching me. HELP please!!!!
Thanx for reading and any comments will be appreacated.
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Spots, spots, spots. What's all the obsession with these fucking spots? Women have an entire sex organ that begins on the outside and continues inside the body. I'm including me drawing the Internal Clitoris.
After watching this go back inside the website and continue reading all over. I've answered this question a gazillion times. Check out The Combination Orgasm. Or better yet, get my e-book Orgasms for Two that goes into this in great detail.
Carlin, I love it when you come up with images like this. Were there any numbers to go with it? Like how tall is Gwen? Her weight? As compared to the cute Minny Mouse standing alongside her. I think big tall women are gorgeous and one of my first affairs was with a gal who was in show business and 6ft tall with a gorgeous face and perfectly proportioned body. Yeah! Give me an Amazon any day and I'll climb up her body. I'm also very fond of muscular men who are about my same height at 5ft 4inches or just a few inches beyond that. I often wonder where our preferences come from?
Thank you so much
I've been with my husband for almost 8 years and I'm 27 this year. now and still have not had an Orgasm through sex alone, I have experienced Orgasm's either by me doing them manually or my husband going down on me. I realise that I am critoris driven when I do Orgasm. My husband has had issues with lasted long enough and has gotten to a point that he would only last a minute now with stopping or slowing he can last 8-10 sometimes longer. In this time I feel he starts to hit the right spot for me to but it's never for long enough, funny enough the spot that makes me go crazy is also the spot that makes him want to ejaculate.
We have used vibrates before sex to get me off but never during and I am wondering if this would be a good idea, and also trying to find one that is slim enough to be able to be used between our two bodies.
Do you have any tips for me or for him to be able to Orgasm During Sex or making him last longer, or to be able to prolong him in that spot we both love. I do believe that in that spot I would be able to Orgasm through him alone as is quite intense. Any pointers for me and him?
I love him either way he has always been able to satisfy me without being able to during Sex I just would love to so he knows he did it and boost him up more!
Thanks look forward to your reply!
Elen, partnersex is a dance between two active people. Not a zombie lying there expecting to "get done" by her lover. Read around the site for more information.
Oh what a thrill to see something so similar to what my husband and I have dreamed of! Bravo!
Though as yet we have not created an alternate "bed" as you have, what we have created for now serves as our sleeping bed and rumpus room fore-play. With no more disability than an occassional sore back; in fact we are both in pretty good shape for baby boomers. We imagine there must be literally millions of others, at any age, with our similar "disability", being taller than the average person. Honestly I believe most couples simply have no idea how important it is to have proper furniture for exceptional sensual pleasures...kinda sad. But as you have realized we also feel passionatly that there is a calling for such a product.
For easier access, mutual comfort and the most delicious fun, my husband created our high bed. It has an an excelent mattress placed upon a solid platform with strong wooden right angle 4x2 legs and very importantly - no box spring! This "platform" bed enhances our pleasure and sleep far beyond the normal lower bed, also too springy (a rediculous design for proper ergonomic body mechanics) We further enhance our pleasure times by using pillows and a wedge and have placed a swival-rocking chair next to the bed for his viewing pleasure, close enough for her to lay back with her two feet to rest upon his knees with hers wide spread...I'm sure you get the image... most deliceous and delightful!
We look forward to checking out your other unique furniture fore-play
Omg I thought I was the only person who does this! This is the only way I can masturdate! My boyfriend whom I've had for 9 years hasnt been able to make me masterbate up to this day, he broke my verginity at 16, I am afraid to tell him cuz I dont wana crush his spirtit, sex with him is still really good but i cant orgasm unless i squeeze my legs together, I want to know, are there special techniiques he can use for girls like me, like possitions etc?
Riding the train is the way to go. I remember taking the Paoli Local to 30th Street Satation, catching the Inter-City to Manhattan's Penn Station, then taking the subway uptown to the art museums. Now where I live, they tear up the railroad tracks to widen the freeway or build a toll road. And they converted the downtown train station into part of a sports stadium.
It seems more people who feel this way are speaking up without being accused of feeling like awful anti sexual pleasure nut cases. I continue to resent the phrase, "We slept together" or "I've been sleeping with my lover for years". There is something so anti sexual about that euphemism that I often think, "Yeah, but sharing the same bed has very little to do with orgasmic sex". I believe it's a substitute for partnersex instead. Having sex when we get into bed at night is ridiculous. At the end of the day most of us are exhausted and have lilttle energy left over for sharaing orgasms. Guys can still get a quickie off, but few women will have the energy to physically or mentally focus on building up sufficient sexual tension to have an orgasm. Mornings or my all time favorite Saturday or Sunday late afternoons makes the most sense to me. Generally speaking, more women are light sleepers while so many men snore their way into a heavenly deep sleep.
When I was married, my former husband was convinced my wanting separate beds was at the heart of our "sex problem". While I knew it was the only thing that would keep me from silencing him permanantly instead of lying in bed trying to shut out the racket he made snoring. This was after I'd discovered earplugs that still didn't allow me sleep through the night. My solution was to push two full sized beds together. So many women all said the same thing except a handful. They all wished they had a big enough bedroom to do the same. No wonder people with wealth had separate bedrooms and bathrooms. While it's true that right after sharing orgams, I adore cuddling and drifting off into a light sleep. However, when it comes to sleeping through the night, I want my own bed. Those two full sized beds ultimatelly became the center of my marvelous sex parties after we got divorced.
This has been my hope for so many years. That sex positive feminists would embrace their erotic bodies and share this energy in a group. It goes far beyond politics, consciousness raising and our sexual liberation while at the same time it is at the heart of it all.
Once Women become grounded in positive orgasmic energy is when we can make changes the world over. Sexual equality will no longer be frightening but rather desireable when both women and men learn to stand side by side to eliminate tops and bottoms except as a consensual sex game that we agree to play if it entertains us. You make me proud, Dear Sister.
What a beautiful picture. The light, the composition, Thank you, young mother.
It's such a cool idea for the condom to be re-imagined, remade... etc.
I bet this could be really cool, but I'd really like to hear someone who has actually tried it (not connected with the company) saying how it felt.
Carlin - You are a gem, and I am so happy to know you and the work you do in the world. Sending tremendous love and respect from across North America, a long-distance high-five and hug.
These are interesting thoughts to me on several levels. I think that sharing a bed is generally desirable for the health of a relationship, mainly because the physical closeness helps to nurture a sense of intimacy that isn't necessarily sexual but is still a form of reassuring connection missing in many of our lives since childhood. However, there could certainly be exceptions due to illness, personal preference, sleep disturbance, and so on. Most partners are understandably going to feel a sense of rejection if separate sleeping arrangements are requested, so this should obviously be done as sensitively as possible. It would obviously be good to monitor the health of the relationship if any such major changes are made.
I agree with the need to question our choices and not to follow the cultural recipe by rote. However, I believe that countercultural people can sometimes fall into the trap of having near-automatic contempt for everything conventional, just because it is the way it's usually done. Conventions aren't always wrong.
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Wow, what a great presentation in 3D.
and his News Letter, Sexual Intelligence. I recommend everyone include him on your computers. He's a brat but smart as all can be. Sometimes, Carlin goes so fast (Aries) that she misses a few details but the heart of her information is solid. Naturatlly so, after all she's my apprentice.
I was ready for the money-shot. I watched the whole episode. Very nice, but I am unfulfilled...unless I could not see the cum.
An excellent piece. When a repressive church or government defines 'normality' it wields enormous power. Just one example: By declaring nearly every form of pleasurable sexual thought and action a 'deadly sin' leading to Hell---and itself as the only remedy---the Catholic Church intends to control every aspect of its members' lives and frighten them into total, life-long submission. Recognizing and exposing the immense, selfish drive for power that lies behind the religious and political rhetoric is the key to taking back what has always been rightfully ours: our minds, our bodies, and our pleasures.
I have a son with autism and what appears to be ADHD also. One of the problems in lumping all these drugs together is that it is often obvious to all that some of the diagnosis are lacking much of a cognitive element. I have not found ADHD in children to have much of a cognitive solution. It is often argued that ADHD is over-diagnosed in schools who are primarily interested in getting kids to conform and spit out math and reading comprehension like robots. However true that may appear to be, there a multitude of parents who will testify to night an day differences with the changes in their children when treated for ADHD. Needing to focus for children is NOT merely a way to get them to conform. It could make the difference between life and death, since attention is an important aspect of issues as simple and basic as traffic safety and the like.
Yes I make an exception. I am not so keen on anti-depressants. But I think there is a difference between WHAT you think about, and how QUICKLY you think about it. Don't know if there is a trick to slow the brain down. Even if we wanted to. Meds, in this case, seem to work.
Yes... I couldn't agree more. A brilliantly articulated expression of the vital and inescapable mind/body connection through sexual autonomy and freedom.
Happy Birthday Carlin!
I can't tell you how much you've been a help to me in the past few years. I'm finally getting to a point where I'm comfortable with my body and my sexuality and I have you to thank for that.
I hope the next 40 years of your life bring you the happiness that you bring to others.
Much love Carlin x
P.S. I have spent an innordinate amount of time perving on your MIMP pics!