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  • Do Women Think I'm a Slut for Going Down on Them?   3 weeks 5 days ago

    ii am 26 guy. i like to have oral sex .... but

  • Betty's Glass Dildo Collection   4 weeks 8 hours ago

    It WOULD be nice to see a presentation of all with a little story behind each one.

  • "I Should be Able to be Informed About What Birth Control Is & How I Can Get It"   4 weeks 20 hours ago

    She has the right of it. Wouldn't it be wonderful to go to schools around the country and teach all of those important things that are so lacking in the sexual education. No fear, no shame, just facts that make for excellent medicine.

  • Such a Beautiful Moment   4 weeks 1 day ago

    Kia ora / Hello from New Zealand
    This was an awesome moment for us New Zealander's like myself who have a strong belief in equality for all people's regardless of sexual orientation, ethinicity, race, religious belief, and disability. I am proud to be a Kiwi.
    There are many translations for Pokarekare Ana. Here is one fyi:

    They are agitated
    the waters of Waiapu,
    But when you cross over girl
    they will be calm.
    Oh girl
    return to me,
    I could die
    of love for you.
    I have written my letter
    I have sent my ring,
    so that your people can see
    that I am troubled.

    My pen is shattered,
    I have no more paper
    But my love
    is still steadfast.

    My love will never
    be dried by the sun,
    It will be forever moistened
    by my tears.

    Translated by Toby Rikihana
    Arohanui / Much Love
    Lepoet

  • Such a Beautiful Moment   4 weeks 1 day ago

    They're singing the traditional Maori love song Pokarekare Ana.

  • Because Dildos Bring Us Together   4 weeks 1 day ago

    Have to disagree about the suitability of the storage spot, Carlin. In the open on top of a fridge is a great place for it to collect dust and oily cooking smoke (yuck). If you want to keep it in the kitchen, what about the cutlery drawer (where everything that goes back in gets washed beforehand!)

  • After Birth Sex is Painful   4 weeks 1 day ago

    Dear L,
    His conduct is abusive, as is yours to yourself. More children with, him??? 

  • Such a Beautiful Moment   4 weeks 1 day ago

    what that song is they are all singing? Sounds inspirational.

  • I Want to Orgasm Not Just from Humping a Pillow   4 weeks 1 day ago

    OMG i've had the same exact problem. I started off

    humping my pillow when I was 12 years old. I continued to do it upuntil I was

    19 and engaged. Nothing could get me off like my pilllow did, now I struggle

    with telling my boyfriend about how I masturbate. I found http://www.humpingpillow.net/pillow-humping/ this pillow humping website  that has information on how other girls are dealing with this.


  • I'd like to hear how other females overcame their inability to orgasm please   4 weeks 1 day ago

    I don't know if this would help, but I have two suggestions. First, when you're stuck in the plateau stage, do you ever just stop for a bit, enjoying how you feel for a few minutes, then start up again? Second, how about arousing yourself, then just leaving it? Do this several times over a period of a day or two, and see what happens. If nothing else, you might orgasm in your sleep!

  • "I Should be Able to be Informed About What Birth Control Is & How I Can Get It"   4 weeks 1 day ago

    I wouldn't have thought Katelyn's college would be in the least interested in her troglodyte principal's threat to tell them about her "bad character," and if you click on invited above, you will see that Wellesley tweeted her, welcoming her.

    The state of Maine accepted no federal funding for sex education during the time when abstinence-only "education" was the only permissible curriculum. The state's once-high teen pregnancy rates have dropped dramatically. This is not, apparently, the goal of the cretin in Charleston, West Virginia.

  • "I Should be Able to be Informed About What Birth Control Is & How I Can Get It"   4 weeks 1 day ago

    Katelyn Campbell is one of my new heroes---she's made me proud and very hopeful. The spirit of Margaret Sanger is alive and well. We can't let the forces of ignorance and suppression win, and it's people like Campbell who will defeat them.

  • I'd like to hear how other females overcame their inability to orgasm please   4 weeks 2 days ago

    Hi, I'm in the same situation as you. I'm nearly 29 and still havent experienced the Big O. It's frustrating and deeply saddens me. Have tried countless time in every way possible but can't get past the plateau stage. I understand you posted this in Nov last year. Have you had any progress since? I'd love to hear about your experience. 

  • Where Does the Penis Go During Intercourse?   4 weeks 2 days ago

    I think one is tempted to be a little flippant: the penis goes anywhere you both allow it to go. Sex is not just intercourse (where the penis enters the vagina), but a smörgåsbord of delights.

  • I've Discovered Quite a Few "Blue Collar" Queers   4 weeks 2 days ago

    Great post.  It is the people who break the cliches that are the most interesting to me.  Every sexual action has devotees of all lifestyles and persuasions.

  • I Came Out as a Bisexual Queer & Continued to Date Men   4 weeks 2 days ago

    I know this post is a bit old now, but I lvoe the dstinction between practise and identity.  Such a great way of approaching the problem.

  • Barbie's Physique is a Physical Impossibility   4 weeks 3 days ago

    I understand the point and it is an important one, but is it actually an impossibility to have a waist-hip ratio of 0.56? I am genuinely curious. I have a humongous butt (42 inches) and a teeny tiny waist (25 inches), and therefore I have a waist-hip ratio of 0.60 so... 0.56 doesn't sound too impossible. And I know Barbie doesn't have a huge butt, she has a teeny butt and an even teenier waist, but the inclusion of this ratio as evidence for her impossibility was bothering me - I cannot silence my scientific mind!

  • In Moments Like These Mr. Rogers Makes Me Feel Better   4 weeks 3 days ago

    That is beautiful, thank you for sharing. I love the optimism and the sincerity.

  • I Can't Orgasm Manually with My Fingers   4 weeks 3 days ago

    I encourage questioners to read some of the already posted answers under ASK DR, BETTY on the nav bar. C'mon gals and guys, don't be helpless and seek the information you need instead of waiting for MaMa to spoon feed you.

    Thanks!
    Dr. Betty

  • I Can't Orgasm Manually with My Fingers   4 weeks 3 days ago

    Hi, I am 28 and the only way I have ever orgasmd is on my tummy, moving my legs in and out and clentching my bum cheeks, it takes me a couple of minutes to orgasm and it lasts about 2 seconds.... I have tried lying on my back and using my fingers but i feel like my clit it too sensitive to be touched and it makes my legs twitch, Ive tried doing it gently and sometimes feel as though im going to orgasm but it never happens. After having sex sometimes when my partner cums in me i get a twiching feeling on my clit and it gives me the urge to need to orgasm so i have to ask him to leave the room so i can hump my bed lol 
    I really really want to be able to orgasm on my back using my fingers so that i can invole having an orgasm into my sex life with my partner.. wethers i just do it myself during sex or not or maybe orgasm off my partner touching me. HELP please!!!!
    Thanx for reading and any comments will be appreacated. 

  • I Want to Come During Sex Not Just on My Own   4 weeks 4 days ago

     Rather than posting under "comment". I may not see it in this format.
    Spots, spots, spots. What's all the obsession with these fucking spots? Women have an entire sex organ that begins on the outside and continues inside the body. I'm including me drawing the Internal Clitoris.
    Internal Clitoris

    http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin/2008/07/betty-draws-internal-clitoris

    After watching this go back inside the website and continue reading all over. I've answered this question a gazillion times. Check out The Combination Orgasm. Or better yet, get my e-book Orgasms for Two that goes into this in great detail. 

    Dr. Betty

  • What is Beautiful?   4 weeks 4 days ago

    Carlin, I love it when you come up with images like this. Were there any numbers to go with it? Like how tall is Gwen? Her weight? As compared to the cute Minny Mouse standing alongside her. I think big tall women are gorgeous and one of my first affairs was with a gal who was in show business and 6ft tall with a gorgeous face and perfectly proportioned body. Yeah! Give me an Amazon any day and I'll climb up her body. I'm also very fond of muscular men who are about my same height at 5ft 4inches or just a few inches beyond that. I often wonder where our preferences come from?

  • Celebrating Orgasm: Leslie   4 weeks 4 days ago

    Thank you so much

  • I Want to Come During Sex Not Just on My Own   4 weeks 4 days ago

    Hi Betty, 
    I've been with my husband for almost 8 years and I'm 27 this year. now and still have not had an Orgasm through sex alone, I have experienced Orgasm's either by me doing them manually or my husband going down on me. I realise that I am critoris driven when I do Orgasm. My husband has had issues with lasted long enough and has gotten to a point that he would only last a minute now with stopping or slowing he can last 8-10 sometimes longer. In this time I feel he starts to hit the right spot for me to but it's never for long enough, funny enough the spot that makes me go crazy is also the spot that makes him want to ejaculate. 

    We have used vibrates before sex to get me off but never during and I am wondering if this would be a good idea, and also trying to find one that is slim enough to be able to be used between our two bodies. 
    Do you have any tips for me or for him to be able to Orgasm During Sex or making him last longer, or to be able to prolong him in that spot we both love. I do believe that in that spot I would be able to Orgasm through him alone as is quite intense. Any pointers for me and him? 

    I love him either way he has always been able to satisfy me without being able to during Sex I just would love to so he knows he did it and boost him up more! 

    Thanks look forward to your reply! 

    L

  • I Can Only Orgasm Squeezing My Legs Together   4 weeks 5 days ago

    Elen, partnersex is a dance between two active people. Not a zombie lying there expecting to "get done" by her lover. Read around the site for more information.
    Dr. Betty