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  • Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...   10 weeks 13 hours ago

    [= medium]My first with a women was just a few years ago and with my current girlfriend. She and I had been friends for about 5 years.We did everything together, she was and is my best friend, but never any sexual things. Things at home with my husband were ok, but sex was boring and I wasn't being satisfied. I started watching porn and would then masturbate to satisfy my needs. I would start out watching regular man on woman porn, but always ended up watching lesbian porn and being so turned on. I started fantasizing and wondering what it would be like with another woman. Anyways, this one day I was over at her house. It was summertime, hot out so we weren't wearing much, shorts and halter tops. We had just had lunch and were sitting together on the couch talking. We started talking about sex and some of the things we had done. I hadn't done much and most of what she was talking about was with men. So I asked her, have you ever kissed another woman? She said she had. Then I asked her if she had ever had sex with another woman. She said she had, a long time ago when she was young and she told me the story about it. I got so turned on. Then she asked me why I asked. I told her about how I had been feeling lately. She said she understood. Then I asked her if I could kiss her. She just smiled at me, leaned over and we kissed. It was a small kiss, more of a peck. I leaned in and kissed her back, a bigger kiss. Then, she put her arms around me and we started french kissing, holding each other close. I could feel our bra-less tits rubbing against each other through our tops. My nipples got so hard and I could feel my pussy getting wet. I started rubbing her tits through her top and then, she started rubbing mine. Her hand went under my top and she was squeezing my tits, rubbing my nipples. I did the same to her. But then she stopped. She said we shouldn't go any further, she was afraid that it would ruin our friendship. I said ok and I understood.I didn't want to stop, but I did. I got up and excused myself to go use the bathroom. Actually, I went to collect myself. I got in the bathroom and decided I was going for it. So, I took all my clothes off and went back out. As I came walking out, her eyes were all over me. She said, Oh my God! I walked up to her and said, I'm willing to take that chance. I was inches away from her. She put her hands on me, touching me all over. She stood up, stripped and took me in her arms, our tits pressed against each other, our tongues in each others mouths, our hands all over each other. She laid me down on the couch, she knelt on the floor, she was touching and kissing me all over, sucking my nipples, her hands spreading my legs open, then I felt her mouth on my pussy. I came immediately. Her tongue licking me, her fingers exploring me, sucking my clit, fingering me. I came again, screaming so loud. She got up and laid over me, 69, and I started eating her. It was delicious. Her pussy was so soft, so sweet, I devoured it, making her cum. We must have ate each other for an hour, cumming over and over. We got up and went to her room. We made love all afternoon. Showered together and have been having sex with each other ever since. We have sex anywhere and everywhere. She taught me how to make my husband a better lover and he is now. Now he and I have great sex. [/]
    [= medium]So, that was my first time.[/]
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  • The First Bodysex Circle in Seattle   10 weeks 2 days ago

    You all are such an inspiration! Thank you for making our world a more loving place.

    One of my greatest investments was in support of the Bodysex DVD. You all are so amazing in the way you keep expanding your influence.

    Angela Thurston has also become an inspirational heroine for me.

  • The Joy Radiates From This Image   10 weeks 5 days ago

    For me, the first eye-catching radiation from this picture emanated via the smiles, via the smiles I saw pure beauty, such beauty, an heirloom from Mother Earth. And via your beauty you radiated sensuality, a group orgasm of body and Nature. What an awesome retreat, what a great pic. I have two favorite poses in the pic: one being the woman seated right forefront who looks like she is caressing her nipples, and, the redhead in a body profile pose looking back into the stream. 

  • Did I Get Sexually Wild at 50?   10 weeks 6 days ago


    I am just an average, 50-something male who is trying hard to keep the sexual flames burning, and a big part of this adventure is reading the posts and responses of the amazing Carlin and Ross. I haven't find much from or about the 50-something crowd, so thank you for sharing your story - it is very relateable.

    I didn't get wilder after I crested 50, but OMG the orgasms have gotten intense. My wife (also 50+ and still looking amazing) has luckily not lost her desire, but after she lost her mom she seems more intent on becoming more conservative. She rarely says "no" when I initiate, but I can fly solo many times waiting on her to get things started. I have read so many posts of men in my position who have no luck at home so it feels wrong griping when I can get as much as I am willling to ask for.

    My gripe is that with all that is available on the internet and at the pharmacy, we could be having as much sex as we did a few years ago. So like you I look forward to a little alone time and am so amazed at how intense things now are. And I've also learned that a little experimentation can lead to some incredible results. Also like you I have thought about expanding on this with someone different, but feelings of guilt (and she and I have the same work schedules = little opportunity) make that difficult.

    So for now I have to live vicariously through people like you. Thanks for the very descriptive, excellent story. I hope you have other, similar adventures and share those as well.

  • It was an Experience Beyond Words   11 weeks 3 days ago

    i remember getting a hug from you when you spoke at the college where i worked.
    love to you all, sisters.


  • Taylor Swift in Court = Perfection   11 weeks 3 days ago

    Not even women
    in the elite class are safe from sexual harassment. You would expect
    that money would protect them from, at least, low class perverts. But
    nooo. Many men from all classes and race think they are entitled to
    treat women like they treat their meat.  
    Swift's mom is right:
    it's time to stop teaching girls to be passive. Change that, and sexual
    harassment will be reduced at least 50%. Teach boys NOT to harass and
    bully, to respect other humans, especially those weaker than them, and
    sexual harassment will be reduced another 10%.

    writing expert at

  • I Feel Really Horney But I Can't Orgasm   11 weeks 5 days ago

    Yeah same for me. I'm 18. I can't come without clitoral stimulation! But what makes it worse is that I can only cum with my vibrator. My partner doesn't play with my areas enough for me to attempt to cum. Now I'm stuck with no vibrator, horny as hell, with nothing to do about it.

  • First Time Orgasm   11 weeks 6 days ago

    Hi! You just seem so sweet. When I was 45 I had my first of 4 traumatic brain injuries. I also developed a condition called gastroparesis. I'm now 49, have not reached menopause and crave sex. I believe it organizes the rest of my body. But, my husband no longer is interested. I do have 19 scars on my belly now and a IV PICC line hanging out of my arm and sometimes a feeding tube out of my stomach. I'm so depressed! My fingers aren't as coordinated and my muscle tone is different as well so reaching can be difficult. I don't know what to do! I can't even go shopping or buy anything by myself. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but do you have any ideas for me with my disability and I only have my fingers? Or how I can get him interested again? Thanks so much, I look forward to your response.

  • When I Orgasm, I Poop A Little!   12 weeks 1 hour ago

    its a natural reaction to an intense orgasm like squirting from a gspot orgasm. There's is nothing wrong medical with any woman this happens to also believe it or not it's a huge compliment for a guy to know he can make you orgasm that intense. Most common ways is with a woman on top and adding a little lean back or doggystyle and the guy raises up and comes in hot at a downward angle. If this happens to you as a woman then you know that it was well worth it. If the guys not an asshole or an absolute moron then he won't be grossed out or make fun. It's a natural body movement, there's even a book called "everybody poops" so your not some kind of weirdo if it happens. You just had a really good time. It's a regular occurrence for me with many different women so again I can assure you that you're not some kind of freak if this has happened to you.

  • I Can Only Orgasm Squeezing My Legs Together   12 weeks 5 days ago

    This is amazing. I'm so glad I found this site and many women who share the same issue that I have. I've been having sex since I was 13 (I'm 19 now) but never have a PIV orgasm until two years ago and that was from getting drilled from behind while having my legs crossed so I'm not sure if it counts. I've had many sex partners, most of which were one night stands. Sex feels incredible but can never bring me to orgasm. I've tried many other methods but nothing works. Rubbing my clit only causes me to pee and while that release is nice it feels nothing like the mind blowing orgasms I get from squeezing my legs together. However,lately my orgasms have been lasting a lot less than they used to. Only for about three seconds and they're not as intense as they used to be. I think I might be masturbating too much because these days I've found myself masturbating five or more times a day (and it's easy since I can orgasm quite quickly from squeezing my legs together) and I've been constantly horny for about a week now. It leaves me very frustrated because even if I cum three times in under an hour I will still feel incredibly horny and it's brought me to the verge of tears. Someone suggested trying to not masturbate for a while since I do it so often and maybe it will help. I'm not sure how that will go since I don't think I've ever taken a break from masturbating for more than a day. Wish me luck ladies!

  • I Don't Think I Have a Clitoris!   12 weeks 5 days ago

    I have to agree with the original poster my clitoris is embedded also. 
    I definitely have one because a wand will stimulate it but it will not come from under the hood. Like some foreskin is so tight it will not pull back, well my clitoral hood will not pull back and let the little beggar out, not even enough to just see it or feel it a tiny bit. 
    I am pretty sure I cannot be the only person with a fully covered hood. I have asked about partial circumcision just to release the hood, (loosen the would be opening) but because it has no other function but to give pleasure it cannot be done in the UK under the NHS and I can't afford to pay privately to get it done. 
    Yes, why would I bother if the wand will work, well the simple answer is I may not always be at home when I get the urge. 

  • Thinking of Labiaplasty for My Large Dark Labia   12 weeks 6 days ago

    You'll change your mind when you see your labia kind admirer eating your pussy sooo patiently you relize that you have a treasure under your panties. Im an an arab too and believe it or not dark messy hairy pussy turns me on soo much i would plunge my mouth into it while it's dripping wet and enjoooy the situation while my head gets pushed into it where it most feels good in the pussy. Believe it or not I had to secretly view porn pics of dark larg labia pussies esoecially wet and hairy and orgazm on them masturbating because my wife has a proportionate pussy. The idea is that what turns on your lover is the feeling that he sees your hidden ugly pussy he would pleasure it the best so you feel privilaged and your trash is someonelses pleasure. The kinkiness and dirtiness of such sticky sexual atractiveness is what indicates you are thinking it wrong. Enjoy your messy pussy and get that mouth eat it in full veneration while saying eat that f**ing pussy with all dirtiness and see how deep it will get you cum 

  • I Need to Practice Delaying Ejaculation. Should I Cheat or Masturbate?   12 weeks 6 days ago

    Hombre J, You may want to check out my book, The Rejuvenating Power of Masturbation, (available at B & N, Amazon Kindle, and which elaborates about the health benefits of edging orgasms as well as practices to channel sexual energy. You can also find many blogs I've written on this topic for D & R (I'm Bila Kolbe). Bottom line, by masturbating with edging orgasms, and refraining from ejaculating, you will effectively train yourself to better control your ejaculatory response. I would suggest you masturbate/edge orgasms without cumming and save the orgasmic crescendoes for your intimate escapades with your wife. This way, your wife will receive the health benefits of your semen(vitamins, minerals, aminoacids, enzymes, hormones, cancer-fighting agents, etc.) and you too will receive the same benefits while refraining from ejaculating while masturbating, a win-win situation.

  • When I Orgasm, I Poop A Little!   13 weeks 7 hours ago

    Okay, so I had recently had anal sex. When he pulled out though there was poop. I felt so embarrassed I didn't know what to do. I'm at home feeling all embarrassed and so bad. He told me it was okay but I'm still embarrassed this has never happened.

  • It was an Experience Beyond Words   13 weeks 13 hours ago

    Happy birthday, Betty! Love u and wish u all the best!

  • I Need to Practice Delaying Ejaculation. Should I Cheat or Masturbate?   13 weeks 3 days ago

    Dear westcoaststroker, I think it's wonderful you are taking time to edge when you masturbate. Definitely keep that up not only for the benefits but for your own pleasure which should not be trivialized. Having a strong urge and interest in your own pleasure and cock is the base for listing for an d wanting to satisfy a partner. I suggest masturbating to ejaculation in the morning and give yourself no more than 6 to 8 hrs to recover before having intercourse.  Then, if you can hold back just once and let thing cool down, you may be on your way to extended intercourse like you desire.
    If you have truely practiced long edging sessions as you say, you should be physically capable and should not fear.
    Keep edging and masturbation for the sake of both of you.

  • Did I Get Sexually Wild at 50?   13 weeks 3 days ago

    Good for you D. I'm so glad you have taken control and allow yourself the pleasure and growth. Taking your time to masturbate and time to masturbate more. You are already discovering the joys and what you would have been missing otherwise. Any unconditional love would surely regoice and encourage that so take comfort in that.
    I do not think it is unusual at all, especially these days, to explore and embrace your orgasm as you have and I encourage you to continue to pursue and develop that part of yourself. 
    We all need and should spend more time and focus developing and strengthening our orgasm and you are no exception.  I only hope you and your husband will one day be able to open up to each other so her can journey together in your new found path to happiness and satisfaction.  But one should never let a relationship keep us chained and unsatisfied as we only have one life to live that after all. 

  • masturbation fantasy   13 weeks 5 days ago

    i had wild,sexy images of the bear's body pressing up against mine.i had underwear (boxer briefs) was so sexy based on how horny i felt,started to talk dirty while masturbating to it.

  • Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...   13 weeks 5 days ago

    I'm  a more mature women, 65, about 15 years ago I started to get feelings about women. I was single and when with my friends at the pool at home when they stayed and when they were undressing it made me horney and I even found myself masturbating thinking about them.
    I wanted to try it with a women but didn't  know how to go about it.
    I used to buy female porn mags to help me frig off, I noticed a chat line number which I nervously rang and had a dirty chat with another women, I did this 2 or 3 times a week and then Found out about visiting female escorts, I was nearly 60 by then, they charged £120 an hour, they were late teens early 20's I'm not ashamed to tell you it was and is the best orgasms I've  had.

  • I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics   13 weeks 6 days ago

    Excellent piece, Betty. I have always known/felt that sex always had a political side to it, and that feeling has become stronger than ever these days.  In times of madness such as these, my wife and I relate to Winston and Julia in "1984."  It's as though our sex, our pleasure, our masturbations are actions "against the state."  Your "conspiracy theories" aside, you have ALWAYS been on the right side of any sexually-related issue.  For the love of gawd, the GOP can't even get its head around how countries like the Netherlands have such lower rates of teen pregnancy and abortion, so how would/could they ever even begin to accept/understand same-sex relationships or something as basic as masturbation?  It truly boggles the mind.

  • Cunt vs. Pussy   14 weeks 1 day ago

    CUNT can be used affectionately during sex. In the UK they use CUNT differently, even calling guys CUNTS in a positive way. The people that are offended by CUNT should read more about it and be more open to progress. CUNT is progress. Be free to speak as you wish.

  • Ladies-Describe your 1st sexual experience with another woman...   14 weeks 1 day ago

    I am 30, single and have only been with two guys.  My boss have me her keys to a cabin in the mountains to take some time off.  It was on a winding tree line road, just wonderful.  The first night I sleeped well and got plenty of rest. The next morning I felt horny and decided to masturbate.  I was getting worked up but just not having an orgasm.  I needed something to drive me over the top.  I went and sat on the porch just in my robe,  I started rubbing my clit under my robe.  It was exciting sitting outside and rubbing my clit.  I really wanted more.  I was getting really horny.  I grabbed my chair and walked it to the edge of the road where the driveway began.  Anyone driving by could see me.  I was just too nervous to try anything.  There were no neighbors and only one car would go by everyonce in awhile.  I wanted to do this.  I remembered seeing a mask on the nightstand in the bedroom.  one that would cover your eyes to block our the light to help you sleep. I went and grabbed and and brought it out to the street with me.   I put the mask on and sat their next to the road. I could feel myself getting really wet,  now I was excited. I could not see a thing.  I opened my robe to the world and started careesing my breast.  Everything felt extreame.  I could barely stand it.  Nothing was going to get in my way from an orgasm now.  I moved my hand down to my soaked clit.  I spread my legs to the world and started rubbing my clit.  I was so horny and excited.  I could feel my orgasm start to build when I heard a car coming.  I wasn.t going to stop I was too close.  I heard the car stop out front it was too late they could see me and what I was doing.  I did stop.  I had goose bumps all over my body  I could not believe what I was doing.  Someone got out of the car and started walking toward my.  I started to orgasm.  It was so intense.  I tried not to make any noise but I could not help it.  I moaned as I had the best orgasm ever.  I layed their with my legs open knowing someone was standing right in front of me.  Then suddenly I felt a soft tongue lick my expose vagina.  I jumped but let it happen. That wonderful tongue licked up my wettness and worked its way up to my clit.  I had a more intense orgasm then before.  I almost past out my breathing was so heavy.  When I finished this person quickly went back to their car and started the engine.  I quickly pulled the mask down to see them driving away.  The driver was a woman.  My first lesbian experience and I did not know it, until it was too late. 

  • Did I Get Sexually Wild at 50?   14 weeks 2 days ago

    I just wanted to let you know I admire your courage for taking the steps that you did to "rediscover" your sexuality at the "young" age of 50.  Living with a partner who does not have the same sexual energy as oneself is tough and often times frustrating.  I am a "young" 56 year old man whose wife of almost 30 years has decided that she is done with sex and no longer wants to share that part of her with me.  Frustrating?  You bet.  I have tried many times to initiat but have been pushed away often enough that I don't even bother anymore.  I do masturbate often and explore my fantasies through masturbation which has helped me to keep sane with my desires.  I've gone beyond just stroking and have enjoyed expanding my practice with toys and exploring other parts of my body.  But I have to say I do miss the connection, both mentally and physically, with another person....and think that it might be time to try the "don't ask, don't tell" approach.  A part of me feels guilty for going this route....the cheating.  But I have tried reasoning with my wife and she is unwilling to meet me half way.  So is it cheating?  Not sure....but I have learned to delay cumming and feel that I could give another person pleasure and share my body with another who is willing and adventurous to share theirs with mine.  Anyways, thank you for giving me a little inspiration.  

  • The Next Bodysex Workshops   14 weeks 2 days ago

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  • Did I Get Sexually Wild at 50?   14 weeks 2 days ago

    The best sex I experienced was with above 40 y o women because their sexual desires are very anchored and defined. It was more a masturbation watching eachother than actual sex because of our fear to catch diseases and get pregnant plus sometimes their principles of not willing to cheat limit it to some erotic masturbation. Older women sense pleasure better because more thoughts get connected to it and many paths of thoughts can lead to great orgazm. It's not about the mechanical ways of sex with older more than it is the thoughts that are so erotic. It is normal just keep getting that pussy horny and satisfied