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  • I Can Never Seem to Get Myself All the Way There   2 days 9 hours ago

    I posted this in the forum, but I really wanted to ask you about this:

    Seven years ago my wife had a hysterectomy, and then six months later I had a stroke (bleeding stroke).

    In that six months we had sex a couple of times and it was fantastic, but I noticed the lack of enthusiasm from her.

    However, since I had the stroke, we have not had sex once.

    I have tried and tried to no avail as she claims that my doctor thought that I was not healthy enough for sex, even though my doctor has given me the go ahead as I have completely recovered.

    So that has been her excuse to stay away from intmacy.

    We are now in our late 50's and have been together for close to 35 years and had an awesome sex life up until her operation, and everything else in our relationship is great!

    We did all kinds of stuff to keep our sex life active over the years . . .

    As an example, one night when I got home from work I found a huge piece of plastic laid out on the livingroom floor, with her sitting in the middle dressed in my favorite kinky outfit of hers (I'm a leg man, so nylons, garter belts and/or pantyhose is my turn on...and she knows it), with a gallon of ice creme, a large bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup and a can of Rediwhip.

    She then told me to sit down on the couch and watch while she made herself into the most tasty ice creme sundae I've ever had in my life!

    Damn . . . thinking about that night that I will never forget has got me all fired up again!

    Anyway, that should give a little insight into what our sex life once was.

    In those seven years I have been repeatedly turned down for sex, and when I try to make any advances I get shot down and left hanging, as it were.

    Again, blaming it on my stroke.

    I went into a deep depression and started drinking whiskey heavily for about two years as I was seriously considering finding sex from someone else, but I'm not built that way and have never once cheated on her or any other of the women I have been with before we got together.

    But I almost did, which is why I used the drinking to stop me from stepping out on her.

    I quit drinking eight months ago as it almost ruined our marriage . . . but for some reason I didn't have the guts to really tell her why I started boozing.

    Well, now for some reason, I am suddenly more horny than I ever was when I was 18 (and I was a horndog back then), so two months ago I reactivated my quest for sex, and I came clean about the drinking and why I did it.

    That was when the bomb fell . . . she told me that she has absolutely no desire for sex anymore and is totally put off any time I try to make any advances or even a little dirty talk (which used to get us both going at a moments notice), and that she doesn't appreciate it when I do that and wants me to stop.

    Now, she said that she would 'try', but two months later still nothing . . . we are no closer to a solution!

    Me . . . I'm about to explode and she knows this!

    I've been having anxiety attacks over this, and the other night on my way home from work I stopped at three different liquor stores, but talked myself out of going in.

    I told her this when I got home, but she just said if I started drinking again she would hit the road.

    I'm at the end of my rope and as it looks right now, we may never be able to do the most wonderful thing that life gives us . . . each other and sex!

    I've had a few oportunities from some other women and turned them down, but now I'm seriously considering this . . . but don't want to!

    What I really want is to somehow get that old spark back but I am daily reminded that this may not ever happen.

    What is a guy to do in this situation?

  • I Have a Unique Way of Achieving Male Ejaculation   2 days 9 hours ago

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  • My Go To "Trick" for Orgasm   2 days 13 hours ago

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  • Is It Possible to be Healthy & Not Menstruate at 19?   2 days 16 hours ago

    Thank you. You have made one convincing, articulate argument. You made a head start on me. I would have made the same case on, but stepped away. Good job!

  • It's Not About the Orgasm   4 days 16 min ago

    I love reading your stories and musings as life evolves and changes for the both of you. I so hope to make it to a workshop in the near future! xxxx

  • If Men Lived in a Woman's World   1 week 1 day ago

    Women's rights are certainly different around the world. Some countries, women can be beaten or killed for merely showing a strand of hair, while in other areas, our rights as fully equal human beings are secured. academic coursework help I haven't travelled out of this country much, and when I did, it was as an American tourist pre- Iraq war part two, so I was treated well anyway. There's a lot of places that have very backwards ideas about women's rights. To a certain extant, the US itself can barely be arsed to care about our rights. Check out the rape conviction statistics and reports of court cases if you want to be utterly horrified. Some places are extremely bad about this stuff, like Saudi Arabia and Iran, but very few nations are blameless.

  • I Can Only Masturbate to Orgasm Face Down on My Stomach   1 week 3 days ago

    What happened to you is that you sucked air into your vagina. It's completely normal and you're fine.

  • How Do I Have a Happy Sex Life When I Get Depressed?   2 weeks 9 hours ago

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  • your first time with anal sex   2 weeks 1 day ago

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  • New BF Wants Me to Squirt   2 weeks 1 day ago

    Big fan of your work Betty! In my experience, squirting is very real and most of the time, very pleasurable.  There has been a lot of recent research about female ejaculation as well as science uncovering important information about the clitorus being much more than a tiny button. I have NOT always been a squirter.  In fact, most of my life, I was not. Curiosity inspired a lot of experimentation and I can defend female squirting from personal experience.  
    I also do not believe that some women can squirt while others can not. With understanding about how our bodies work, being both very relaxed (comfortable) but very stimulated, and with patience with the g-spot, I believe women can learn to squirt. My suggestion for getting started would be to incorporate warming lube in your play and make sure the g-spot is well covered (or the area on the inside upper wall of the vaginal canal up to about 3 inches). Ben-Waa balls (especially those on a string) can help stimulate the g-spot. I have also found the WeVibe and a g-spot stimulating vibrator helpful. Firm or hard pressure may be more effective than the "come hither" motion popular in instructionall info.
    I can tell you for certain this is not does not exit from the urethra but rather from just inside the vaginal canal. I have had both gushing and squirting experiences. I have been able to ejaculate further than 6ft. The fluid is clear and sweet tasting and smelling much like sugar water.
    Personally I am thankful for this development in my sexuality. It has brought me (& my hubby) great pleasure. 
    I love how even now in middle age my body is still surprising me and I am still learning more about it.  Oh the beauty God created when He made women.

  • Learn a New Orgasm: How to Upgrade Your Masturbation Technique   2 weeks 2 days ago

    Hi all,

    I didn't know any of this my whole life. I'm 43, and until my 40s only just started to orgasm during sex. I also just got my first dildo. I was sexually shamed as a kid and teen and even in my 40s my parents make sex seem shameful. I had no clue about any of this stuff. I still have a hard time having an orgasm during masturbation, but I'm getting there.

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  • If Men Lived in a Woman's World   3 weeks 2 days ago

    Women's rights are certainly different around the world. Some countries, women can be beaten or killed for merely showing a strand of hair, while in other areas, our rights as fully equal human beings are secured. WriteCheapEssay I haven't travelled out of this country much, and when I did, it was as an American tourist pre- Iraq war part two, so I was treated well anyway. There's a lot of places that have very backwards ideas about women's rights. To a certain extant, the US itself can barely be arsed to care about our rights. Check out the rape conviction statistics and reports of court cases if you want to be utterly horrified. Some places are extremely bad about this stuff, like Saudi Arabia and Iran, but very few nations are blameless.

  • Am I Asexual?   3 weeks 2 days ago

    Many asexuals I know (myself included) masturbate. The most widley accepted definition of asexual is "does not experience sexual attraction." Plenty of asexuals masturbate. I highly suggest you look up the definition of autochorissexual, which is a type of asexuality. 

  • How Can I be More Confident, Show Myself Naked & Please Her?   4 weeks 13 hours ago

    Hi I will start with your labia, you have nothing wrong with it as we are all very different and thats for both men and women, heres a link you should relly look through, labias your see loads, your love it. OK

    AS for being naked try when your on your own just be naked get used to it, even at this moment I'm sitting here naked, not because its make me feel sexy, its because I just love being free of cloths, think about it, we was all born very naked, so learn to love your labia and being naked, your get there, do yopu shave your pubs off try that see yourself completly naked and it will feel far sexier that way and its more healthy. OK

    One more thing do you know yopurself, have your ever sat with a mirror and look at your vagina, get to know it and how it feels.

    Do you masturbate try that it could help you, another way of getting to know your vagina. OK

    One last thing is a little book which is great for the bedside titled Love Play by Dr David Delvin, now its a couples book yes men and women bits your find in side but remember what I do to my wife you will do to your lover all works the same your find it on Amazon cheap, read it and your enjoy it just as much as we love Betty and her answers. OK


  • Did I Ruin My Clit from Unlubricated Masturbation?   4 weeks 1 day ago

    I'm 30 years old & I've never had an orgasm. I didn't even realize I never had an orgasm until I was in my 20's & started discussing sexuality encounters with friends. I quickly realized what we all experience was not the same. Well what I experienced wasn't the same as them. Especially when I discovered women can ejaculated. I quickly felt like I've been missing something my entire life. Especially when my friends asked if I've ever ejaculated during masturbation & I said no. They all look at me & talk to me like I'm crazy & something is wrong with me.  I have no  clue how to get myself there & I've never had a partner get me there either. I always thought it was about enjoying getting the man there. I never knew a women could enjoy sex the way they can. I've spent years trying to figure it out ever since. Still no luck. Any advice? 

  • Our Latest Ebook & Vulva Anatomy   4 weeks 2 days ago

    Ah, how little us men know.  Carlin, I want to congratulate you in your writing and videos and blogging, that you are educating the world about the vulva and all its parts in a way which was never done so well until now.  You are brave and honest to use yourself as the model.  I'm tired of the sexless sex educators.  Your pussy is beautiful and I smile when I see it in these pictures. Your clitoris is so cute Keep up the good work! 

  • How Do I Have a Happy Sex Life When I Get Depressed?   4 weeks 2 days ago

    If you have clinical depression, medication might be what you need, and there's no shame in that. My husband finally was diagnosed after we had been together for almost 20 years. Although he did have more trouble reaching orgasm, he became truly engaged in and enthusiastic about partnersex for the first time in his life.

  • New here so hello   4 weeks 2 days ago

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  • Betty's Barbell: From Cool & Heavy to Slick & Hot   4 weeks 4 days ago

    I am new here and really not an expert on sexual subjects. I do however want to make a comment on men, and especially my husband Paul. He could never be replaced by anything. I do like my alone time to play with myself and enjoy the pleasure I get from it at the pace I choose with the items I select to use. That said, I need my partner Paul to hold me, kiss me, and stroke me like I can't do myself. This world is wonderful because I have unique ways to be pleased and to please others. Really would love to hear someones view on the Bodysex Workshops.