It's known that I have this weird oral fixation and I like to suck on things. Having a penis to always have in my mouth is really the only perk I can think of when it comes to being in a committed relationship with one person.
So, I noticed that I and my friends have different blow job "styles". After observing them during the act, we all handle a dick differently. One friend alternates stroking and sucking, but never does both of the same time. My other friend does both at the same time, never separately.
He had no complaints, and his only request/suggestion was prior to any oral action when he said "Please don't bite my dick. It's happened before and it just doesn't feel good." Hey, I can respect that. It made me laugh, because a girl that I knew a while ago had a guy who loved it when she gently scraped her teeth up his shaft. I mean, hey... To each his own.
Then it got me thinking... What makes a BAD blow job? Too much suction? No suction? Gagging? Isn't it really dependent on the person receiving the action more so than it is the action itself? I mean, I'm sure there are guidelines to follow, but how can anything so personal be written in stone?
One friend said that, when she gave her first blow job, she spit on it. She SPIT on his PENIS. That made me cringe, because I can't imagine gathering up my saliva, releasing it on his dick, and then swallowing it again. It just makes me nauseated thinking about it. She also sucked his balls. Why did she do all of this? She always sees it in porn... Well, though I'm sure there is some good porn out there that will unintentionally teach you to give a good blow job, the throat-fucking/face smacking that I always come across doesn't seem like something I'm going to try to emulate.
I never really paid attention to my oral technique, but I do notice that I go a lot slower than they do and I use more tongue. I guess I think about how *I* would want a blow job. Until I'm told differently (and hell yeah, I'm open to suggestions from the suckee), I don't see much of a reason to switch this shit up. Though I don't think it matters, because everybody likes different things. Just because I may be fantastic at giving oral to one person does not mean that will be the case with every dick that enters my mouth.
I look forward to perfecting my oral techniques... On men and women alike.