"Edging" an Orgasm

Tue, 06/08/2010 - 09:48
Submitted by Anonymous

So, I've rediscovered a sexy technique I used to partake in when I was younger: edging. You know, masturbating until you're just about to come, then you stop, let the feeling subside a bit, and then start again? It's fantastic (and totally feeds my twisted Glenn Close fantasies).

It wasn't on purpose that I started doing it again. I was home alone, masturbating, and just about to have an orgasm, when I thought I heard one of my parents' cars pull into the driveway, so I stopped. When I realized that it wasn't them, I started at it again and it clicked!

I stopped and started twice before I was just overtaken by the feeling and had a wonderful, trembling, gasping orgasm. When I was younger, I could do it five or six times before I finally gave in and let myself come.

The thing that I loved then -and still do now- is the fact that the pussy "aftershocks" seem to last forever. It's like a splash into a lake that ripples on forever. I stop touching myself, squeeze my legs together, and I feel the little pussy pulses that I absolutely love.

One thing I've noticed is that it's not as pleasurable to do this when I use a vibrator. True, I love my vibrator to no end, but it's still no substitute for my fingers. It amazes me to see the variations I come up with to bring myself to orgasm. From my usual circular rubbing to a light tapping right on my clit, my masturbation techniques never get boring. Toys tend to limit my imagination.

I don't know why I seemed to have forgotten about edging. Even though I've picked it up again, I don't see it being a habit for every future masturbation session, as I almost always pass the fuck out after one of those orgasms. I don't know what it is that makes me so sleepy, but it's like taking a damn Benadryl with immediate effects.

It doesn't matter. When Glenn Close comes to find me and I move in with her, we'll edge together and fall asleep in each other's arms in happy, orgasmic bliss.

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edging is "WONDERFULL"

Tue, 06/08/2010 - 13:37
kathylu (not verified)

This is great for both men and women. I've been doing this for years and stumbled accross it kind of similar to your situation with your parents. I was in high school at the time home along. I was admiring how my body was continually changing me into everything "Woman" from a little girl. I was rubbing my little button one day when I thought one of my parents came home, so I stopped long enough to see that I was still alone in the house. I started up again, only to have some parcell delivery guy ring the bell and drop a package on the front step. I stopped again and started after the coast was clear. The orgasm I had was sooooooo intense that I was from that day forward and "Edging" masturbator.

As far as my current boyfriend, we do this on him from time to time. The longest session we ever had was close to two and a half hours. I'm sure that's the longest he's ever been erect. He would get right to the edge and stop until the feeling subsided and then I'd start on him again. We did hand jobs, blow jobs, tit jobs, and he even penetrated me for a little bit. The one thing I noticed is that his penis was a little larger than normal after staying hard for so long, not sure if this is typical, maybe some other people in here can confirm this. His orgasm was really strong. That was the most semen I've seen him shoot at one time and he had some really good distance. That was a fun afternoon!

Edging to Perfection

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Thu, 06/10/2010 - 03:20

My edging technique has really revolutionized pleasure and orgasm and masturbation in general for me.

I no longer "hold off until the feeling subsides"... I try to find that little pocket where my body is thinking its on the bring of orgasm, but not quite so far that it's there. (this requires precision control and rock-solid PC muscles.

Essentially  I'm sitting there gently rocking my foreskin back and forth only a few millemeters as my cock convulses time and time again with almost no downtime. Sometimes I get too far and really have to clench my kegels until it subsides, and then masturbate slightly more intensely as I try to get back to that sweet spot.

But, it really is the best.. because not only does it constantly send shivers of orgasm down every part of my body everytime I hit it, but it absolutely builds the pressure even higher.. I've built up my ability to handle that pressure to the point where I can last hitting that sweet spot countless times before I really can't hang on any longer.

It's gotten to the point where I'll cum so hard that I literally cannot catch my cum in toiletpaper any longer.. it will glance or deflect off and get all over the place. If I really want to be careful, I need to cum into a cup or directly into a garbage can to ensure it won't get all over the place.

One other thing I've noticed... this technique ups my pre-cum production by 500 percent. I find that I often create so much that it drips and runs down my hands and gets all over the place.

So yeah, its a large masturbatory time investment.. but it couldn't be more worth it.


24 - M - Critical Relativist and Feminist (Equalist) - Canada

I have practiced edging for

Wed, 07/14/2010 - 10:18
dave (not verified)

I have practiced edging for a long time. There is no feeling like being at the edge of an orgasm for long periods of time. My all time favorite is the use of ladies lingerie to get me excited and hard and playing for long periods enveloping my cock in pure silkyness. I have also found that my level of precum has increased ten fold. My cock is like a constant leaking faucet with precum while I play. Just having intamate fun with a ladies silky pair of panties is out of this world. If I had a pair of your silky high cuts or a bikini I would love to slip them over my hardness and play. Then when I decide to finally orgasm I could fill your panties full of my creamy cum which by the way is very sweet to taste! I have also found that I have huge loads of cum from edging as well as a lot of pressure shooting out of my cock.

Gee I wish I had the discipline to do this

Wed, 12/22/2010 - 22:57
LilithLand (not verified)

I have tried to edge forever, and I alway come anyway Lol. I don't know where you people get the discipline.


Thu, 03/03/2011 - 13:25
GirlUnderBlankets (not verified)

Isn't that difficult for me. Most times I'm watching porn and edging. When I edge I try hard to get the feeling of almost cumming as much as possible then stop. It feels awesome. I try to do it as many times as possible before letting myself actually finish. I just like riding the orgasm and feeling myself contract, then stopping and being able to feel it all over again. I also find edging fun if you are with someone (say, in a room) because then you two can do it at the same time + see who can last longest.


Thu, 07/02/2015 - 09:43
Mikedavies66 (not verified)

I use an ice pack on my erection, it eases the need to shoot my load and then when it feels kinda numb I start all over again until I reach boiling point then use the ice pack over and over, my cock stays hard for hours like that.


Sat, 10/31/2015 - 11:23
BigCummer4U (not verified)

Constantly cycling between 'almost orgasm' and back to square one is one technique, BUT...really effective edging can't be done unless the subject is restrained.  It's not easy to deny onesself the release that comes with orgasm.  It's much easier for someone else to deny that release AND keep the subject right at the edge.  Because I produce so much cum during arousal, there were a lot of girls and women who tied me to a chair or bed or X-frame just so they could edge me longer and see how much cum resulted.  Frankly, I'd hardly feel the first orgasm and would need at least one or two more for any real relief.  One very experienced older woman came up with a very creative idea to enhance the extended edging:  after reducing me to a lump of sheer lust, caring only about nutting and begging for it, she had several of her close girlfriends on standby.  She sent one quick text message and all three were there in minutes.  THAT cranked things up a notch.  Having these 'new eyes' present to observe how ( and how much) I cum was mindblowing and I couldn't do a thing about it.