Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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It seems the most important aspect was not dealt with: Nipples showing when they get erect. I solved that one by wearing black or a dark color. I've gone without a bra since the sixties. What freedom!!!!

I love the scarf idea...my aunts have always sent silk scarves as gifts and I usually only wear them in the winter with turtle necks...now I have a summer option. thanks!!

I have a medium size bust so I've been going braless for years. I found using camisoles with lycra material a good base when going braless...the new tanks, halters and camisoles with built in bra support are also great...

this is kind of going in the other direction of comfort but I am a huge fan of corsets as well...if im feeling sexy, I usually don a corset...

Hi Dr. Dodson,

Good point. Thank you for the input. Part one: The Under structures is more about hold than nipple coverage. A good no bra day for me involves reducing breast movement. Most of Part two: The Cover Ups do a good job of hiding my nipples. For example the thicker fabrics of the vest and jacket, or the loose draping of the scarves, the wrap and the large shirt  all hide my nipples. The patterns on the the loose tank and the halter dress can draw attention away from nipples.

~Palesa

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Hi BellaFigura,

Yes big scarves are wonderful. So versatile they can be a dress,shirt, skirt, tie etc. Glad you liked the idea.

Corsets, that is an interesting fetish. Well you are much saucier and adventurous than I am in that department.  I am pretty anti-anything that reduces the amount of air coming into my lungs, so I would have to leave the corsets for my next life ;)

~Palesa

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Don't be afraid of yourself, live your individuality to the full ---
but
for the good of others. Don't copy others in order to buy

Hi ElisaDay,

I agree with you. I am more concerned about reducing movement than hiding my nipples, but if we are talking about reducing what makes a woman feel like she might get unwanted attention for not wearing a bra, I can see Dr. Dodson's point. Plus I may have relatively small nipples compared to some women. When people look at my breasts I assume it is due to their size and movement rather than my nipples. Plus I tend to get turned on when I notice my nipples are erect, so I am probably so consumed in my own pleasure that I no longer care.

~Palesa

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Don't be afraid of yourself, live your individuality to the full ---
but
for the good of others. Don't copy others in order to buy

I'm 19 and I've never worn a bra and neither do I see a reason to do so. I can understand wanting to restrict their movement, if you have bigger breasts (I'm blessed with smaller ones :-), but seriously... why all the fuss about hiding nipples? Now what, if they become erect? Quite frankly I don't give a damn, if somebody notices that or not. An erect nipple is neither an invitation for stupid remarks nor for anything else in that direction - that's like blaming a woman who was raped for wearing, I don't know, like, a skirt or whatever... It's just another subtle way in which society tries to controll women's bodies. F*ck that!