Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I have always loved masturbating! As a kid growing up in the mid-west (and as a Baptist, at that!) I masturbated simply because it felt so gooood!!! The pastor said it was a sin, but, really, it felt too good not to! I was taught that if you masturbated, that you'd run out of sperm and be sterile! (Yes, they said that in my church!) I did it just the same. In time I realized that it had been nonsense, of course! In college I discovered in biology class that men made sperm all the time in their testicles, and that, unless you were injured, your testicles would keep on making more and more sperm for the rest of your life! THE PASTOR HAD LIED!!!
I have lots of fantasies when I masturbate. I don't think I ever masturbate without fantasizing, as a matter of fact. I have lots of gay fantasies (even though I am married to a wonderful woman). I'm bisexual, by the way. My wife knows it. She accepts this. I sometimes watch gay porn (mostly, but not always). She knows that, too. She knows I have a 'special relationship' with my cock (I think most men do, in fact). She's fine with that.
As I said at the beginning--- I really love masturbating. When I masturbate, I go for long periods of time, teasing myself, not letting myself come until I have lasted, say, an hour (sometimes longer, sometimes, over a period of a week). Maybe that sounds to some like not any fun; but, anticipation is an important part of pleasure, and I don't like being rushed! I think it was VirginMonoblogger who refered to this type of masturbation as "edging," and that's a good description of how I practice masturbation, as well.
I liked what you said about thoughts drifting in and out your mind as you jerk-off. As bi, I also tend to think of myself as being gay, as well. I mean, if your bi, doesn't that put you on the Queer side of things, at least a little bit? So, for me, to call myself "bisexual" isn't all that much different than being gay. Not really. I mean, yes, there are those who are strictly gay, but for me, that line seems more permeable, less distinct (it is certainly there, the line, that is, but not as well defined). I like Betty Dodson's take that if you've masturbated, youv'e had same-sex. It puts an interesting "twist" on sex, doesn't it? With masturbation, I love the freedom to swing across the boundary lines! Gay. Straight. Bi. Something of all of this I find inside me. Masturbation gives me the freedom to enjoy them all!
Masturbation is that time where your'e you, and only you; unencumbered by roles or expectations of others. I love those moments alone. I can't imagine never indulging myself in that fashion. Afterwords,I feel---refreshed, and calmly relieved.
Edgerman

i love masturbarion, im a male, and i love to have cyber sex, if you or someone wants to masturbate eachone, in front of the camera, just repply please

I don't have any moral problem with masturbation. However, I do have a problem with my husband doing it to the point that he no longer desires to have sex with me. When life gets a little hectic it's just too easy for him to rub one off instead of taking the time to work me up and go through all the foreplay I need. That's why we decided to make his kinky fantasy a reality and get him locked up in a male chastity cage. I realize that this isn't going to work for everyone, but it sure has worked for us. Now days I keep my hubby locked up for a week at a time, during which his desire for me builds and builds. Then, on the weekends, we have mind-blowing sex. Of course, during the week he is welcome to pleasure me wit his hands and tongue all he wants, which is quite a bit these days. Think about it girls...