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Below is the erotica-style notes taken by the husband-half of my latest sex life coaching couple-clients, we'll call them, "Mina" and "Victor." They've been married for a bit over twenty years and tied the knot in their late teens, early twenties. They have children still at home as well. They were both interested in learning how to have firey, ravishing, desire-drenched sex as they had both perfected watery, warm, love-making sex or did maintenence sex for years and wanted an alternative among other sex life goals.

They both had their issues and perspectives and we concentrated first on Victor's sexual skills development and Mina's pleasure. I had a session with each of them individually, prepared a short sex menu for them to create together, (some of it was new territory for Mina) and out came this amazing account and very good first-time erotica by Victor:

Mina was lying on the bed, fully clothed, while I sat in the chair  next to her. We talked about the exciting new sexperiences we'd enjoyed  over the last 3 days since meeting with Eric. So much had changed. We  both agreed that this was the best thing that had ever happened to us,  as a couple, in nearly 22 years of marriage.

I stood up, walked around the bed and slid up next to Mina. As I  did, I noticed how hot her beautiful curvy ass looked in those tight
jeans. I slid my hand up the back of her thigh over her butt and said,  "I've really enjoyed getting to know your rosebud these last few days.  And I can't wait to go further with it. Soon."

She smiled and responded, "Mmm. And then the next time we have a  threesome you can fuck me in the ass while there's a cock in my pussy."

Whoa! I almost came right there.

A few years ago we had our one-and-only threesome. My college roommate  and best buddy, Paul, was visiting and staying at our house. He's good  looking, athletic, and I knew Mina was attracted to him. (She had  divulged this several times when her blood alcohol content had reached a certain level.) One thing led to another that night--there were tequila shots involved--and the three of us ended up naked in our bedroom.  Paul and Mina didn't full-on fuck (no intercourse), but a good time was definitely had by all.

This was the hottest sexual experience either of us had ever had, but it hadn't happened again since, and I wondered if her childhood religious  guilt had gotten the best of her. So when she brought up a threesome  again--and double penetration--I was enthralled.

Me: "Really?"

Her: "I'd like to, but I wouldn't want you to be with another woman, and that doesn't seem fair. And I'm not into women."

Me: "Don't worry about that. We'll only go as far as what we both agree on."

Her: "OK"

Me: "How about this? Think of the other people as living sex toys. No emotional attachment like we have."

Her: "Oh, I like that. That helps."

Me: "Besides, in the heat of the moment would you care if it was a man or a woman who was playing with your pussy?"

Her: "No."

Me (silently in my head): "YES!!"

I kissed her, told her how hot she makes me, and how much I was looking  forward to fucking her. The I got undressed and jumped in the shower.

When I came back into the bedroom, she was under the sheets, wearing  some sexy little lingerie. I turned on some music, lit a candle and slid in next to her. I was so hot from our threesome conversation earlier that it took everything inside me not to just rip her clothes off and fuck her right away. But I knew she needed to warm up first.

She asked if I would massage her back, and I was more than happy to oblige. I sat her up and lifted her nighty over her head, exposing her perfect full breasts. She flipped over on her stomach and told me she was going to leave her panties on for now, just to tease me. She arched her back as she said it, showing me the full shape of her beautifully round ass.

I warmed up some organic coconut oil between my palms and began to rub her back with deep firm strokes. Since I was straddling her legs, my hard cock pressed against her ass every time I leaned forward to massage her upper back. And each time my hands made their way down to her lower back and sacrum, I pulled on her panties and revealed a little more of her luscious ass, until I eventually had them down to her thighs.

Mina could feel my sexual heat, and she wanted me in her mouth. She got up on her knees, grabbed me by the shoulders and put me down on my back. Her eyes locked on mine and full of lust, she brought her head up toward my chest, letting her hair and her tits lightly brush my tight scrotum and hard cock. Then she turned her eyes downward, wrapped her fingers around the base of my manhood, and slowly lowered her hot, wet mouth around my throbbing cock. She continued to suck, lick and nearly swallow me alive while I moaned in ecstasy.

I have no idea how long she pleasured me--time seemed to stand still. But I remember the salty taste of my cum as she came up for air and passionately kissed me.

I had not come yet, but that wasn't my goal right now. It was her turn--I wanted to get her off. I laid her down on her back, pressed my four fingers against her warm pussy and began kissing her tits. She moaned, took hold of her right breast and lifted it toward my mouth. I took in the nipple and areola and sucked and savored its softness while she moaned.

I began pressing my fingers against her labia and clit, slowly pulsing as I could feel her getting warmer and wetter. She reached down, put her hand over mine and began moving it up and down, her clit sliding between my middle finger and ring finger. As I moved, she let me know it was hitting just the right spot. "Oh yeah. Oh, that's good. Oh, I like that."

Soon she was ready for more. "I want you to kiss me," she said. I knew she didn't mean on the mouth. So I moved down between her legs, doubled a pillow and slipped it under her hips. I started by licking her labia with my tongue, working my way up until I felt her swelling clit. I decided to continue the same pace and direction with my tongue that I had been using with my fingers--up and down around her clit. She liked it, and I stayed with it. I had tried the side-to-side and chaos tongue action the last two nights, with mediocre results. But steady up and down with my full tongue was exactly what she wanted. Much better.

Then I sat back, half-crossed two of my fingers, and began finger fucking her very wet-and-ready pussy with a twisting motion that made her moan. After a minute or so of penetrating her, I stopped on her G-spot and began pulsing against it by flexing the tip of my fingers and first knuckle. In the past I had tried this with more of a rubbing motion, but the flexing/pulsing action really hit the spot with her. I continued working her G-spot and then re-engaged her clit with my tongue. This was magic. Mina's head went back, her back arched and I saw her hands grab the sheets in ecstasy. She was getting wetter and I could feel her clit getting fully engorged against my tongue. Her intense pleasure made me feel like I was in full control of this sexual woman.

Soon she was ready for the next dish. "I want your dick inside me," she said. I knew what she had in mind, she was ready to have her monster orgasm. So I reached over to the night stand, grabbed the Magic Wand, and let her climb on top of me as I laid on my back. Her hot, wet pussy enveloped my pulsing cock, and we both signed in pleasure as she sat down on me. She rocked a few times, and I could see the look of anticipation on her face. I reached down to my pelvis and put my thumb down horizontally in line with my dick, and let her press her clit against it as she moved. "Oh, what's that? I like that."

But it was time for more. Mina grabbed the Magic Wand, turned it on and pressed it against her clit as she rode my cock. I reached out and firmly grabbed her hips with my hands, which almost sent her over the edge. She was getting closer, almost there. She told me to grab her ass, and gasped as I squeezed hard with both hands. That was it. I held on tight as she leaned forward, her eyes rolled back and mouth wide open. She let out a high-pitched gasp, and I could feel her pussy begin to pulse, squeezing around my hard cock as she orgasmed. And then I felt her sex juices begin to drip down over my balls. There's nothing in the world like my woman having an orgasm with me inside her.

After she had time to get through the intensity of the orgasm, she was ready to get fucked. I playfully flipped her over on her back, pressed her thighs down against her chest and slowly thrust my cock deep into her fully wet and ready pussy. After a few slow strokes, I pulled her
legs to the side and really started fucking her--hard. I looked into her eyes and saw what looked like pure ecstasy combined with a cry for mercy from the hard fuck she was enduring. I leaned forward and said with a deep, lustful voice, "I'm going to fill your fucking pussy with my cum." She dug her fingernails into my arms and responded, "I want you to fucking cum inside me. Fuck me." I kept fucking her--harder and harder. And she was eager to take it. I gave one final strong thrust, pushed my cock deep into her, held it for a moment and let my cum explode inside her. I collapsed on top of her, our two hot, sweaty, fully-sexed bodies lying limp on the bed.

After catching her breath, Mina said with an exhausted voice, "OK, I didn't think it was possible, but that was better than the threesome. The best sex I've ever had." Fuck yeah.

After reading this, I said to Victor during our next sex life coaching session how interesting it was that him coming too fast, which was an issue that was on the table for resolution, didn't come into the picture, particularly when Mina was coming up to her big clitoral orgasm during intercourse. Victor said he found to his surprise that his penis was taking longer to reach orgasm with the new way they were having sex. I told him that most men go the other way and it was his and Mina's lucky day that things went that way. I taught him a great come control technique on our third session where they were both in the room. I remember Mina answering the door to their Manhattan apartment with, "Okay, I'm not nervous anymore!" I'm very happy with their transformation. Mina had her best sex and there's so much more to have and feel on top of that! A very exciting time for them both.

-Fin

For those new to my blog, I write on my and others' sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible in sexual pleasure. It so often lights a desire to "Want to do that. Feel that." They want to learn how to have better sex through developing their sexual sophistication maybe for the first time in their lives. I also intend to present to my readers the reality of great sex from basic to advanced to inspire them as it will. Finally, ever wonder how good the sex that your sex therapist is having in their own sex life? I have. I'm not a sex educator, nor a sex therapist. I don't do sex therapy. I'm a sex life coach. I guide, I teach, and I do.
   

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