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Below is the email I received from a recent client we'll call "Melissa," who is engaged to "Travis". She completed a package of only two Talk Session sex life coaching sessions. I followed up to see how she was doing with her fiancee, with whom she'd been in a relationship with for the past 6 years or so and were on schedule to be married. Melissa's email made me so happy for her and for the positive impact this work has. Read on:

Hey Eric-
so sorry I didn't get back to you! I thought I sent a reply back to you, and as it turns out, it was saved as a draft in my cell. haha just to remedy that, I'm sending this via my computer so that won't happen again :)

Life is going well!! Things are crazy busy but my life feels more in order. Especially in the sex department. We're just more excited by each other. I'm happier with the way everythings working. I feel wanted again. I even noticed a change in other aspects of our relationship. Just the way we communicate is different. It's fantastic!

I'm hoping that once I get back my tax return that I could maybe sign up for a couple more sessions with you. I just have to see what I can realistically afford. I'm already kinda scraping all my money together to make ends meet nicely.

All that being said, I just want to thank you for all the information and help you've provided. When we first started talking I was pretty sure my relationship was going downhill fast and that there wasn't going to be much to help. All the previous discussions that happened between Travis and me about our sex life changed the whole dynamic of ourrelationship in a negative way.

Thankfully, its taken a dramatic turn for the best because of our sessions. The sessions, and definitely because of your blog entries too. I've enjoyed reading them so much. They made me fantasize again...in the way where you see/hear/read something, and you think "wow that would be fantastic to do/try". Reading your entries had me crazy turned on and in turn, transferred into my bedroom.

I hope you're doing well, and I look forward to possibly getting more sessions and learning more from you :)
-Melissa

I was very pleased with how quickly these two made the transition from "meh..." to "amazing!" One thing among many that Melissa and I figured out together to help things was her belief structure that it is the guy's role to initiate sex fueled by her desire for him to "take her". I said there's no problem with that intention from him, but women can feel that for their men too. I gave her a scenario to do to surprise him and it worked perfectly. Later, she got her desire to be taken because she sparked the flame in him. Our culture does a great disservice to sex lives everywhere by narrowing things down too dramatically. A healthy, exciting sex life works way outside that tiny box.

I was also happy to see her responding to the erotica in this blog in precisely the way I intended it. To inspire at the very least on the "crazy turned on" level, which provides fuel. It also got her fantasizing again and imagining herself in scenarios like the ones I wrote about. I meet so many women who say they don't fantasize at least in that form of sex fantasy. Men do so much more often and it makes me happy to even the playing field some. It benefits men because his desire and fantasies for hot sex now has a mirror in the woman he's with. That sets the stage perfectly.

For those new to my blog, I write on my and others' sex life, in erotica form, because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible in sexual pleasure. It so often lights a desire to "Want to do that. Feel that." They want to learn how to have better sex through developing their sexual sophistication maybe for the first time in their lives. I also intend to present to my readers the reality of great sex from basic to advanced to inspire them as it will. Finally, ever wonder how good the sex that your sex therapist is having in their own sex life? I have. I'm not a sex educator, nor a sex therapist. I don't do sex therapy. I'm a sex life coach. I guide, I teach, and I do.
   

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