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Hey all, I know it's been a long time since I blogged last. I've been busy with life and being in Betty's latest erotic sex ed streaming videos. I'll blog about my experiences on the set, as the male model, but first, below is a reply I made to Chantale, a user here on the site, who replied to my blog post on ovulation and how it turns the allure and sexual hunger up in women. It's about the Fun Factory Smartballs, during ovulation. Read on...

Great reply, Chantale. I saw on a documentary recently that everything you said in your first two paragraphs are on target. They also claimed that women's waistlines narrow to make the hips seem wider and subtle shifts in how she presents herself and looks facially. Also, they showed a researcher who went to a gentlemen's club and studied the income made by the lapdancers over 5000 dances. It was very consistent that the women ovulating had big spikes in their income. Combination of those two things you mentioned: pheremone output, hotter, fearless, voracious sex drive and energy that makes them dance "harder" (given the best head, in your case) or get more into it than perhaps they normally would, all contributing to more money made.

Now, per the previous question about how birth control pills prevent ovulation and does it also prevent all the other sexy-hot effects that women get? I researched it some and couldn't find anything on that. No surprise there. If the pill does stop all that hotness, that's a damn shame. If that's true, one big advantage of the IUD for contraception
(non-hormone loaded) is a woman still releases an egg and gets all the hot sex goddess effects too. I understand that the IUD is also more reliable than the pill.

(This just in: a website I found, www.momlogic.com, talking about how birth control pills may be affecting women's selection of masculine faced vs feminine faced and featured men. More to the point of our discussion, it also briefly mentions that the sexy-goddess effects are not given off because ovulation does not occur. Score one for the IUD.)

Now for the hot tip...

There is a toy called the Smartballs by Fun Factory. (here's the link to a great women's sexuality store, A Woman's Touch, where you can purchase the Smartballs) Try sliding it inside your ovulation-jazzed vagina and going about your fertile days. To understate it, with a constant presence jiggling softly and filling your pussy, on ovulation days as you go about town... you'll be voracious for sex that night with your partner and yourself. I say that because they may tire out before you're satisfied. For that ovulation day anyway. There's always tomorrow to look forward to. I've had women tell me who tried this that they had to masturbate during their lunch hours in a quiet, clean ladiesroom, feet up on the stall, because of the powerful tease. How they tugged on the little cord that withdraws the Smartballs from your pussy while they massaged hard clit using saliva and pussy-wet. Squeeze your PC muscles and pump out that orgasm. Make sure you wash your hands before indulging in some bathroom hotness. Let me know how good an idea this is in a comment to this post.

The primary purpose of the Smartballs is strengthening vaginal PC muscles. I do attest that my penis receives some incredible stimulation from a strong, toned vagina. Very strong orgasms inside her. Imagine this, then follow these simple instructions from your sex life consultant: pump your vagina, your yoni, your cunt, your pussy; tight, slippery, cock-stroking-perfect and hot, then relentlessly fuck the sperm and cum out of your man's balls and cock. Hold precisely that intention. Let ovulation fuel your assertion. Let him rest, have some fruit and water and keep him awake, because I know he has more cum for your pussy to drink deep of during round two. Or three. Don't forget your clitoris. Like Chantale said, you can have some of your strongest orgasms during this time.

If your partner is having a hard time orgasming inside you, or in general, vaginal muscularity is a wonderful addition to your pelvic health and his pleasure that can be combined with his efforts to improve his sensitivity during vaginal intercourse. Was just teaching that to a male client recently. Hey, I do my penis exercises for my lovers. Imagine what sex lives would be like if everyone took as much interest in sex organ strength and tone as their arms, thighs, butt, stomach, and pecs....

Here's another blog from www.babble.com from Kelly Mills who found a study that links ovulation as a time that lowers inhibitions in women and activates reward centers in the brain, making more men more attractive. Also a reminder harkening from my blog that states how a woman would do well to bear this in mind and not do risky sex, alcohol, and drug activity because ovulation can lower her guard.