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Here's some feedback from two clients who had sex life coaching phone session(s) with me. The first one is from a mid-40's woman wanting to learn some strong oral sex skills for a man and the second is from a thirty-something woman who was searching for solutions on how to get better at sex, yet not let classic goal-orientation symptoms occur. I believe a much more accurate term is immediate-success orientation.
Without goals when it's time to grow, practice, and develop, we are often granted fun, but not consistent, momentum-gathering growth. The key is how you make goal-orientation work very well for you and your partner and enjoy the trip without having a requirement that you reach your goal. Let it come when it comes; be it the first time or the 20th time. Go back for further clarification if need be, but always be enjoying the trip there, the erotic exploration, and connection even though you're in learning mode.

I. Eric, something you explained to me in our session-that it is wonderful to have your penis pampered a little bit longer in a woman's mouth after you have ejaculated into her mouth-this has just been confirmed to me by my email lover. He said that he is that imagining right now, how I would pamper him in this way. I don't think many women think to do this-? Eric, you helped me understand a very important connection between a man's body and heart. Having said that, I would hope for the same caring pampering between my legs.
-Reiko
II.Hey there! Just wanted to let you know that with the communication I had left
with him last time and a bit of fantasy --- I had some bliss last
weekend .... So it was very good !!!   Thanks so much for helping me
create it around fun and not accomplishment ... :D

-Katherine

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