A Straight Woman who Loves Pussy or a Lesbian who Loves Dick?

Sat, 03/06/2010 - 09:04
Submitted by Anonymous

The last time I dished on a lass was months ago at a party (see here). She tasted amazing. And ever since then I've been dying to pearl dive one more time... no that's not true. I hope to pearl dive often throughout my life.

Recently, though, I've questioned whether I like women or if their packages attract me more... Men and women both appeal to me in many, many ways. Men for their virility and their delightful penises, women with their bountiful chests and yummy pink boxes. Trans-identified persons are up for sexual harassment as well. I believe the only thing that doesn't do it for me are butchy women. It's not pleasing on the eye for me. This is just a personal issue. So, I dare not say or even mean to suggest that butch women are generally unattractive. However, for me, I cream more so for feminine, red-rouged, blushing babes with glorious long locks and curvaceous bodies. Hmmm...

Although, when I'm with a beautiful woman and we've sped past the wonderful kissing and touching and undressing of our silky blouses and pantyhose, all I want to do is eat her pussy. Nothing else. She doesn't even have to touch me. She can sit back and just enjoy my tongue swimming around inside of her like a tadpole. And I'm completely fine with that.

I turned down a threesome because the gentleman's lady was not into pussy. She didn't mind frenching me in front of her boyfriend, but if I frenched her member she would have surely kicked me out of the bedroom. What kind of fun was that? As if to call me "a lucky girl", he boasted that his genitals were open to sexual exploration should I choose to venture through that bit of terrain. He especially liked the idea of lining me and his girlfriend up side-by-side, his dick hopping from one hole to the next like a bunny rabbit. I loudly moaned out of sheer boredom (not pleasure) and shrugged off his request.

I feel like a straight man in need of cock. Sure, the body attached to it is attractive. But, the oral quality is hard to deny. There's the taste, for one. I enjoy tasting my own pussy. I like licking my partner's lips after s/he has eaten me out. So, naturally, why wouldn't I want to enjoy another lady's vajayjay as well?

But, I also believe there's the quality of giving pleasure. The attention is taken away from my body and placed entirely on hers. Same with giving a guy a blowjob. The big difference is that I would rather watch a woman writhe around in ecstasy than a dude. A woman is far more sensual and, well, her dance is too seductive to abide. The one in which her hips sway and swagger uncontrollably, dancing to an orgasmic rhythm one can't quite hear. It's like I'm blowing a doggie whistle - silent, but loud to those who can't help but listen.

Being a lesbian or straight implies that I will eventually settle for a man or a woman. Being bisexual implies that I'm a slut. It isn't taken as seriously because ultimately we all have to make a choice. Since this implication leads to relationships, I tend to not associate with any sexual orientation because I cannot see myself partnering up like that. Not now. I have no reason too. I'm not bearing any offspring. I like living by myself and having my own demands to meet. Can't I just be an organism that bonds to another organism?

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Mmm, you very eloquently put

Sat, 03/06/2010 - 11:14
Fruit Taster (not verified)

Mmm, you very eloquently put into words the amazing enjoyment it is to eat a woman's pussy and to see her float in a see of pleasure. Eating pussy is just wonderful. I too love the taste of it. I call it a woman's nectar. I too can be very happy just playing her like an instrument with my tongue...

Of course, what that makes me is just another one of those surprisingly few men who are passionate about oral sex. For you labels and categories come into play. I find it interesting that labels can be both freeing and limiting. Realizing and accepting that you're bisexual can be freeing in that you can pursue whatever tickles your fancy, yet in terms of perception from others it can put you in a box.

I very much dislike labels but I very much love descriptions of things for what they truly are.

Nicely put!

Mon, 03/08/2010 - 15:50

I love how you describe what is truely fantastic about eating another womans pussy. I have had a few experiences with other women in my life and I too just love getting her out of her clothes and getting my mouth on to her love box. I love the aroma of an aroused pussy and I love the pubic bush tickling my face, and I love the way those little pussy lips look. At the same time I consider myself hetro because I'm in a "Straight" relationship. I also love everything about a man. The macho-ness and ego that most men have is a turn on. I love looking at my guys penis up close and love taking his rod into my mouth. I love the couple of seconds before he shoots his load when his penis seems to grow extra hard and a little larger. I love that sensation as his cum fills my mouth. I love the taste and scent of cum. I have had orgasms before just by letting my guy cum in my mouth as strange as it sounds. That familiar scent that seamen has is a big turn on to me. Everynow and then I'll smell a chemical with amonia or something like that in it and it make me want to give my guy head. Then again, I love how a womans furry mound feels to the touch, I love how hot and wet a pussy feels when sliding my fingers through the folds. I love how soft pussy lips are, but how the clit is like an erect little penis.

OH WHAT A DILEMMA!

Yeah... a really hot,

Tue, 03/09/2010 - 15:50
Christina Cicchelli (not verified)

Yeah... a really hot, sweaty, sexy dilemma!

"Illusion is the first of all pleasures" - Oscar Wilde

www.christinacicchelli.com

Yes!!

Thu, 03/11/2010 - 23:35
Kara (not verified)

All the things that I have felt about myself, women, and relationships you described so elegantly. I will have to quote this essay in the future when i am talking about sexuality to others. Thank you for putting the words in my mouth.

Frustrated

Fri, 09/23/2011 - 05:10
AnonymousWoman (not verified)

I am a straight woman who really wants another woman to eat me out...

I'm a straight woman, but I'm

Tue, 01/14/2014 - 06:46
Curious about pussy (not verified)

I'm a straight woman, but I'm very interested in licking pussy. I don't have any attraction to women beyond sexual, but I'm mainly interested in their tongues and nether regions. And that's really it. It's an entirely prurient interest. I am emotionally and sexually attracted to men and can only see myself settling down with one. I guess casual sex with women would be quite easy for me since I'm not looking for any romantic attachment with.

Pussy Licker with a Side of Dick

Sun, 08/16/2015 - 13:58
Scarletina (not verified)

I was so glad to stumble across your article. I have felt the same way since I was a teenager. I am now in my early 30's. I can't seem to give up eating pussy. It is such a turn on for me. I don't want anything in return, I don't want my pussy licked. Eating them out gets me off. I just want to please a beautiful curvy, feminine woman. I also am not turned on by more butch looking women. It turns me on so much when I make them cum, especially if they are a first timer. I love to seduce a woman and give her something she has never experienced before. I savor the memories from each pussy I've ever licked. The problem is I like and date men. It has caused problems in my relationships with men, but it is something I really can't go without. If I for too long without doing it... I become obsessed with the idea of it until I am sated. Anyway, I thought I was some sort of freak. I'm glad I am not alone.

I want to suck her too

Sun, 03/06/2016 - 14:20
Whorey by Nature (not verified)

I'm a little late to the blog, but I'm with you on this!  All I want to do is eat some sweet pussy.  I crave it often but I don't know how to approach the person I want to taste. I'm happily married and my husband knows well about my desires to have a woman for a Suck Buddy

You're not alone

Sun, 03/06/2016 - 18:27

Some men feel the same - I certainly do. As my previous female partner was openly bisexual, the combinations three can make were numerous. Sometimes she just went off to have a fling with another woman. It never bothered me, she always came back, and frankly it just made her more sexual. And I agree about there being no need to orgasm. She was extremely sexual and with her there was a 'feedback' - her multi-orgasmic pleasure gave me erections yes, but the real turnon was mental. I spent hours 'going down' and absolutely loved every minute. I have never understood why this causes a problem for so many men - their partner's pleasure should be their pleasure. As for finding the 'right' woman, I thought I had pretty good 'radar' but hers was better, so there was never any problem - I would say the best way (for a man?) is to let a woman find another suitable woman - I know my partner went by appearance, presentation is a better word, and her taste was for very assertive and feminine women, never 'butch'.

David

Just Ask

Sun, 03/06/2016 - 18:42

Obviously you need to pick the right woman first, if there's a rule it is 'if she turns you on seriously, she might be the one'. Then just ask, the worst that can happen is she will say 'no'. Always be polite but not shy - my partner's approach was something like, she would start a conversation then after a while she would say 'I really like you, you turn me on, can I have sex with you? (go down on you, fuck you, suck you - chose whatever suits you at the time).

Just a man's thoughts, see previous post 'You are not Alone' about this.

David

This is one of the most sensible topics I have ever seen

Sun, 03/06/2016 - 19:23

I totally agree with Christina, and everything that has been posted in reply. I absolutely love women, and I love women who like women even more, we share a common interest LOL! My partner is overseas for a year, she is bisexual like my partner before her. She is working in a professional role in a very difficult environment, so she just has to think about what she would be doing if she was here in Australia. Recently she sent me the link to twilightwomen.com and said that of all the crap on the web, it was the first she had seen that went even close to being realistic about how women like to be touched, kissed and have sex together. I had a look, and I agree. Incidentally when she is home we don't live together, she and a very close woman friend have bought a beautiful apartment together, and when I am not there (and sometimes when I am) they 'sleep' together. She asked me early on if I minded and my answer was 'Not at all'. I just can't see why any man would mind but maybe the answer as to why I don't mind is that many years ago when I was not quite seventeen my tutor (a very amusing man) called me into his office and inter alia said "the problem with you is you are cunt-struck, I was at your age and I recognise the symptoms". He was right, I was and I still am, which is probably why I like women who are too.

I am afraid I think most men are very stupid where sex is concerned, they don't know what they are missing.

David

Paul, we are a happy small minority

Sun, 03/06/2016 - 20:18
davryn (not verified)

I left answering your post to last because I wanted to answer one or two other posts on this topic first and I think from what I have said it is obvious that I totally agree with you. I wonder if we sub-consciously select women who feel the same way we do. I certainly seem to have been deeply involved with bisexual women - women who sexually like men but who sexually like women too. The proportion of women I have been involved with who are bisexual is greater than that in the population, so I guess we select each other.

I'd be very interested in what you think of twilightwomen.com, my partner and I don't often look at porn, but this is different. She says it reflects what women want - how they want to be touched, kissed etc - it is women-women, but I think it should be shown to every 18 y.o. man and they should be told 'this is what women want', not other women perhaps, but replace one of the women with a man and the same applies.

I've been thinking about that issue of selection, and I think the first level is language. In a book I have written I say Tolkien disliked allegory in all its forms, I dislike euphemism. My partner is very direct, originally I consulted her professionally (she is a psychologist), we went out for a cofee together and after maybe half an hour talking she, out of the blue, said "Do you want to fuck me?". I am sure she wanted to see my reaction to such a direct approach. I said "Yes", she said "If we fuck, will you lick my clitoris?" I said "Of course" and it was "OK, let's go". So I think we had already established compatibility in our approach - I think we were quite a long way towards selecting each other just by that short exchange. What do you think, is it true that if you can't talk openly about whatever it is sexually, you probably won't do it, and if you can talk about it you probably will do it?

David

Eating another woman out

Wed, 03/16/2016 - 03:18
lroann (not verified)

I think it's totally natural to want to lick another woman. We all know what makes us tick, to have my tongue on another woman's clit and lick her until she cums is such a turn on for me. And of course is she wants to return the favor I'm more than happy to receive. Even touching another woman and making her feel good is so sexy...we are so soft and wet why not enjoy each other ?

I love boobs but I love dick more

Mon, 05/30/2016 - 15:24
Minna (not verified)

I am straight and I love breast play with other women. I have no desire to kiss a woman and don't find our nether regions in the least attractive. I do find it very erotic that other woman find my breast attractive and would like to play and suck on them. Interesting enough, as I go about my daily life, I don't pay other woman's breast attention, I enjoy looking at men too much ;-)
IMHO, I think too many people are in a rush to prove who they are based on labels. Based on those labels and expected conduct, they conform. For me, I'm satisfied with breast play as my close encouter with other woman.

Pussy eating women

Sat, 09/23/2017 - 09:51
Anonymous33 (not verified)

Pussy eating women are everywhere nowadays.

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