Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I'm a straight guy in my early 50s, but I also have a kinky side. I've always liked masturbating, ever since I've been able to. Besides many forms of straight sex, I enjoy spankings, cross-dressing, role-reversal, outdoor nudity, and posing and making videos of myself this way. One of my favorite ways to masturbate is with a dildo in my ass, whether it's strapped to a strong woman, or if I'm alone. I first started using a small dildo on solo flights in the mid 1980s, and discovered the joy of role-reversal with a dominant woman just a few years later. I've been a dildo slut ever since.

My first memory of Betty Dodson is from about 1987, when I was at a friend's house one night flipping cable channels. I may be wrong, but I'm pretty sure it was on the Playboy Channel where there was a show with a discussion group. I recall Dr. Betty explaining to one of the guests that "masturbation isn't just beating off", and proceeded to enlighten the panelists and audience by explaining the concept of self-pleasure. My friend laughed about it and continued flipping channels, but I didn't forget Dr. Betty. I can't remember the names or faces of anybody else I saw on that show. I'm sure that's partly because I didn't see much of it, but also because Betty really stood out! I loved the idea that someone could go to such a doctor and get coaching like this, and I had my first fantasy about masturbating with Dr. Betty. What a thrill it would be to beat off with a woman my mom's age, and have her study my style, analyze my methods, etc.! My parents didn't teach me anything about sex.

I occasionally saw Betty's name in print magazines in the years immediately after, but it wasn't until 1996 that I read "Sex For One". I found it a great read, and finished it in a day. My absolute favorite sentence in that book is....."My last few men's groups got a big surprise on their second day when I opened the door nude, wearing only a pink plastic dildo that was at least nine inches long". I had a nearly wet daydream thinking of what would happen if Dr. Betty walked into a one-on-one session with me wielding a 9-incher. I'd be buns-up kneeling, begging for her to fuck my ass! I sent her a snail mail letter immediately after reading the book, along with a Polaroid pic of me holding my stiff rod and wearing nothing but a big smile. I got a nice letter back saying the pic was on her bulletin board!

In 1998, I found Betty on the Internet. She floored me with an essay titled "Our Date Tomorrow", in which she turns the tables on her male date with her 9" lavender silicone strap-on dildo. I've stayed in touch with her ever since, and consider her a friend. For the last 8 years or so, I've addressed her as "Aunt Betty". That's because I like to fantasize she's my strict auntie who likes to have her way with me. I have an occasional strap-on mistress in real life, and I refer to her as my aunt for the same reason. But I never stop thinking of different scenarios in which Aunt Betty has to discipline her naughty nephew! I have gone from casual admirer of Dr. Betty to bend over boyfriend wannabe to present day, which means horndog, slut maid, private dancer, dildo slut, boy slut, toy slut, and all-around "skank ho"! She knows she can have me whenever she wants, and now she can pimp me out to Ms. Carlin too!

I use this nickname because I was living in Louisiana when I first found Betty's web site, and read a suggestion about naming my cock. That was 12 years ago, but the name stuck. Before that, I never called it anything but my dick. I still hope to meet Dr. Betty in person someday. Until then, I'll just dream of the inevitable merciless, thorough ass-pounding I'll get when we do.