Has Humping Furniture Damaged My Clitoris?

Tue, 03/14/2017 - 08:10
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr Betty!

I am 18 years old and worried about the damage I may have done to my vagina. I discovered I could pleasure myself at 3 years old, by rubbing my clitoris against a sofa arm, and now regularly masterbate using the corner of a wooden desk. I am aware that this is really unhealthy as it is such a harsh movement, and I am worried that I have desensitised my clitoris or damaged it. Furthermore, as I tend to rub on one side, one of my labia majora has become much larger and more stretched than the other, giving my vulva a lopsided look (although I know vulva's come in all shapes and sizes I feel like mine is not normal as my masterbation has unnaturally stretched it).

Furthermore, I get cysts which appear first as lumps which I can squeeze, presumably because of the pressure I place on my vagina. However, I cannot masterbate in any other way, despite having tried, and therefore keep going back to my usual method time and time again. I am now scared to have sex because I fear that I will not be aroused by a partner, and am also self conscious about the look of my vagina.

Thanks in advance and look forward to your advice on how to improve my situation.

S

Dear S,

this method is very common due to hiding our masturbation. We think the grownups don't notice what we are doing and after all, we are not touching ourselves "down there." Start to touch your vulva (the vagina is the birth canal) with you hands covered in some kind of massage oil. Focus on your clitoris for sexual sensations. Always be gentle and build up momentum as you continue.

Our inner lips rarely match. Just continue to read inside the website. Eventually you will learn to touch your vulva with your hands. Having a sexual fantasy always helps. You need to be focused on a sexual act that turns you on. Be sure to read, "How to Upgrade Your Masturbation Technique."

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Hi Please take a look through

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Tue, 03/21/2017 - 07:30

Hi Please take a look through this link, and your see just how womens vaginers change in size, shape and one side being so different from the other. OK

So your ok and very lovable. OK

http://beautifullabia.tumblr.com/

NOWHARD

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