Am I Old Enough for a Sex Toy?

Thu, 10/30/2014 - 07:14
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I am a sixteen year old that is frequently horny all the time, about to turn seventeen on the 10th of November.I feel like my hands aren't really doing the job when I masturbate. I do not know what to do.You are a inspiration for me, I have seen all your videos, the one's I love especially are the two when you discuss the hymen, and the other one that shows middle age woman looking at their vagina's and discovering the beautiful gift below...Yah! I am also a Pansexual.I feel that my sex drive is very high and that I am going bonkers to achieve the pleasure of my dreams.

I have been jacking my clit since I was like seven I was punish by getting my ass whooped if I got caught doing it. Based on my mother's religious antics I was not committing a sin to go down south for those reasons only if it was to wipe from front to back, or wash up to down.

Please and thank you for reading this.. enlighten me with your profound knowledge about sex:)

Dear C,

I didn't try a vibrator until I was 35, and believe me, I was having fabulous hot orgasms by hand. Get some massage oil or coconut oil and develop your manual skills. While you're doing your clitoris also explore penetrating your vagina first with your finger. And don't forget your fantasies that really help.

My first dildo was carving a penis from a white candle. Next I carved a zucchini to the right size and fucked myself while doing my clitoris. Then I ate it. Also I tried cucumbers but the seeds made them fall apart too easily if I carved to close to the center. I always left some of the green skin on the bottom for a handle.

Many a horny girl has happily vibrated with her electric tooth brush. C'mon Girl! Get creative and give yourself some first rate manual orgasms. The first sex toy is additional lubrication on your sweet little hot hands.

Dr Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Old enough

Thu, 10/30/2014 - 16:57

Old enough to buy one in the US? No. As far as I know, you have to be 18+ just to walk inside any store that'd carry them. Guess asking your Mom is out. Sad really because I loved the Star Wars scene where Obi-Wan gives Luke a vibrator...Or light saber maybe it was, and says "Your father wanted you to have this, when you were old enough..." What a great opportunity for a mother to give her daughter her first vibrator. :)

Quick googling around it doesn't seem it's illegal for adults to buy sex toys for minors. Porn yes, masturbatory aides no. Though as I'd thought, some states and juridictions might try to use 'contributing to the deliquency of a minor' if it became some public thing and the state had to make an example or something.

As to the health aspect of using a vibrator at 16 going on 17 (hums the song) :) Not a physician or even a woman but I'd think not. By 16, and quite a bit earlier you're 'sexually mature' in biological terms. So 'stunting' clittoral growth or development shouldn't be an issue, but if concerned about might google around. What I've seen re: vibrator use is only good though as to the long-term effects.

My only concern about it lies in how you say you're super horny already. Gonna be a terror when you get into vibrators. :) Just in time for Halloween though.

Age Constraints

Sat, 11/01/2014 - 05:47

In the UK you have to be 18+ to have a credit card unless underwritten by an adult but I've never heard of an age limit for buying vibrators by cash or debit card.

But whilst there might not be a legal limit here I would want my girls to explore manual skills first and foremost at this age and add in toys once they're more comfortable in thier own skins. Betty's advice is excellent.

PS Jeffrey, My experience as a liberal parent suggests that nothing would be more horrifying to my teenage daughters than the idea of receiving a sex toy from their mother.

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