Set Up Threesome. Have No Idea What We're Doing

Fri, 06/20/2014 - 06:49
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

My boyfriend & I have been dating for 3 years & we have both had fantasies about having a threesome . We have found someone to do it & he is very attractive along with my boyfriend ! They are friends & have been since grade school. But, the only thing we are having trouble with is.. None of us has done this before..

We have NO clue what we are doing & I have done a little research & have looked at pictures to give me some ideas.. But what happens if we run out of things to do & none of us have finished ? Or what if we get bored in the middle ? My biggest fear is what if it gets awkward !? Any advice on what we should try to avoid awkwardness ?

We have set boundaries .. No anal . At all. It is a MFM . PLEASE HELP, BETTY !

Dear C,

All of the things you fear are what makes a threesome so exciting. The Unknown! You already have established the main boundaries: no anal with MFM or male/female/male action only. So you are going to get all of the sexual attention from two adoring men. Be sure to feel free to give them directions or orders.

Of course the first thing I'd want to see would be both guys sucking each others dicks. Trust me, if it were two women and one man, the gals would be eating each other's pussies. Just saying. Never mind me, just relax and have fun.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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My Two Cents Worth.........Think the threesome over

Fri, 06/20/2014 - 10:26

Have to add my two cents here…..

The only time a threesome was initiated in my lifetime, was
the guy I dated invited a female friend into our bedroom. I walked out of the
bedroom as soon as I saw my guy touch the other woman…never got that far into
the threesome experience. I am too "vanilla" for such types of sex
play. My suspicion would be when there are two men in the threesome…that sounds
to me like two guys getting off on the same gal - but will SHE really get hers?
If you go into it with that attitude and do not wind up being a "cum
tool" just so they get off and you do not……..forget it.

Tell us how it works out if you go through with it.

triad vs. threesome

Fri, 06/20/2014 - 16:28
leslie c. (not verified)

You could do it like a Tantric Triad. First hour it could be all about you and you receiving pleasure, then each guy could have his turn to be satisfied the way he wants. That way everyone gets the chance to feel like the center of attention, worshipped and adored and nobody ever feels left out of the action. It avoids the potential of you feeling like a cum receptacle too. And if the guys don't want any guy-on-guy stuff, when it's time for one guy to receive the other could "hold space" perhaps supporting the other at his head or back. It's really intimate and nice and it's better than one guy stepping out of the action and videotaping. It keeps you all three connected. Enjoy.

I've done more MFM threesomes than I can enumerate.

Tue, 06/24/2014 - 12:08
Sex Club Bob (not verified)

I couldn't tell you how many times I've had MFM threesomes with various women. Probably a third of them were with my wife and the rest were at sex parties with other women. They were all great fun.

My advice to anyone trying a threesome for the first time is for the minority gender, the woman in this case, to not worry about satisfying both of their other playmates. This is a time for them to lay back and enjoy the attention. If you worry about making two people happy you are taking on double the "work" load and you will stress about that too much.

If they are like me they will have a great time without getting quite as much attention from you as they usually would.

First exposure to a threesome

Fri, 12/01/2017 - 22:56

I was 19 and I am very tall so I used to be able to get drinks in the nightclub without being checked for I.D. We lived in a resort town in Southern California and many tourist would come up on the weekends and enjoy the mountains. This one night on a Saturday I really had to much to drink and was feeling no pain.

I decided I had enough and was going to exit the club and walk home which was not to far away. On my way out I stumbled and fell to the floor and an older man and lady was behind me and asked if they could give me a ride home. I said that would be great and I followed them to their car. I got in the backseat and he was driving. His name Mike and her name was Sharon.

On the way out of the parking lot she told me they had seen me earlier that evening and commented on how tall I was. I told her I get asked all of the time how tall I was and I told her. She asked if I didn't mind that they stop by their rental home before they take me home. They were nice people and I told them it was ok.

When we got the their house, they asked me if I wanted to come in for a bit. They seemed very nice and she said she would really like it if I would consider it for her. That did it and I said I'm ok with that and we went into the house.

When we were inside Mike asked Sharon if she wanted a nightcap before bed. She said yes from her room and also said she would be right out. She was in her room for a while and Mike asked if I would like another drink. I told him no that I had enough and was feeling much better. He told me he was glad that I was feeling better and he told me that his wife really wanted to spend some time with me. I was a little shocked at the way he said that. I thought maybe I took what he said wrong and didn't think about it again.

Sharon finally came out of her room wearing this very sheer nightie that I could see through very easily. Being as horny as every 19 year old my cock was hard in a minute and was straining against my Levi's. I couldn't say a word and Mike just sat there and kept looking at me. He handed her a drink and we all just sat there with both of them looking at me.

Soon she moved close to me and was talking to Mike and asking things like, what is it like to be so tall and she thought all the girls would like to be with me. I was a bit embarrassed and didn't say much. My cock was about to explode with her conversation. She then looked me in the eye and said she wondered if my cock was big as the rest of me was. I told her I wasn't sure and she wasn't going to let it go by without knowing.

Both reassured me that it was ok with both of them that we were all together talking this way. I wondered where all this was going. Sharon asked me to stand up in front of both of them while they sat on the couch. I got up and moved over standing tall in front of both of them. Sharon looked at Mike and told him it was his turn. Mike kept looking at me and was very serious when he said they both wanted to see my cock and would I remove my pants and show them my cock. Mike said he could see that I was very hard and that he really wanted to see it for himself.

I got very nervous when he asked. I had experimented with guys before but never with an older man. I was feeling very good anyway and soon I just reached down and unbuckled my belt and unsnapped my Levi's and dropped my pants and underwear right there for them both to see. My cock sprang from my pants and felt so good to be free from those pants.

There I was standing in front of these people, my hard cock right out there and I was feeling very good. Sharon asked Mike what he thought. He said said that it looked better than he had hoped and that we had plenty of time left in the evening. She looked at me right in the eye and said that she thought my young cock was very beautiful and that she and Mike really enjoy a beautiful cock like mine. Sharon stood up and walked towards me and was feeling my cock and said in a whisper, my husband really likes your cock and I want to see him suck your cock. It really turns me on to see him with another guy. I told her I wouldn't mind that.

She turned to Mike and told him that we should all go into the bedroom and get more comfortable. I stepped out of my pants and let them lay on the floor and I followed Sharon into the bedroom with Mike right behind me. She asked me to stand by the bed so she and Mike could sit on the edge of the bed and admire my hard cock. I did as I was asked and soon they were both sitting right in front of me with their faces directly in front of my hardon. Sharon said to me, can Mike feel your cock? I nodded ok and Mike reached up and took my cock in his hands and he rubbed and stroked me very nicely. It felt so good that I closed my eyes and was just enjoying the sensation. Soon I could feel my cock go into someone's mouth, I looked down and sure enough, Mike was sucking my cock so good and I thought I was going to explode in his mouth at any moment.

He stopped as if he knew I was close and let me settle down a bit. I reached over to feel Sharon's tits. Her tits were so full and tight and I wanted to have them in my mouth. She asked me to sit on the bed and I did. She reached over and was feeling my hardness in her hands. She looked to me and said she thought my cock was so good that she wanted it all night long. I was game for anything at this point.

They had me lay down and Mike was soon sucking my cock again and Sharon kept asking him how much he liked sucking my cock. He said that he enjoyed it very much and wanted it all. Sharon whispered in my ear that Mike likes his cock rubbed when he sucks cock. I began to reach over for Mikes cock and found it very big and hard. It felt so good rubbing it I wanted more. As I rubbed his cock harder and harder he moved around for us to get into a 69 position. I enjoyed going down on Mikes cock while he was sucking me like it would be his last time. Sharon kept talking to both of us how much she was enjoying watching us suck each others cock.

I could tell she was rubbing her pussy while she was watching us and she was making sounds like she was really enjoying the show Mike and I were putting on for her. I have to say I was getting into sucking Mikes cock and it was so good and I felt so good. Mike and I stopped again for a bit and Sharon wanted Mike to slide his cock into her pussy. He moved over and guided his hard cock into her. When he pushed into her they both moaned very load and Miked looked at me and told me to stand over her so he could suck my cock while he fucked Sharon. I stood up and got over her and faced him with my cock right I his face. He opened his mouth and sucked me right in. Soon I wrapped my hands behind his head and was pumping my cock into his mouth as he fucked her so good. She kept talking to both of us while all if this was going on. She was very hot and wanted to go on and on.

All of a sudden she said she wanted me to fuck Mike while he was fucking her. I had never done that and was very curious at the thought of it. I moved around and got behind Mike and his ass was in the air and I got on my knees behind him and started to catchup to the rhythm of their movements. So I was there I could feel my hard cock pushing against Mikes asshole. He stopped for a split second and I took advantage and and slide my hard cock into his as and the feeling was so good like nothing I have felt before. We were all moving together as we fucked each other and Mike started to yell that he loved my cock in his ass and he told Sharon that he loved her for making this all happen. So I could feel I was getting very close to cumming with Mikes ass so tight around my cock as I fucked him.

Sharon really did control how things went and soon she wanted us to stop everything and reposition. We did as she asked and I was told to lay on the bed and she wanted Mike to suck my cock while she lowered her pussy onto my face. Mike was on my cock again so fast and Sharon moved over me and I was eating her soaking wet pussy and the whole time it all felt so good that I was going to let go. I told Mike I was ready to cum and he grabbed me and pulled me closer. I kept end my pace and soon I felt my toes curl and my thighs tighten and my hips thrusts up into Mikes mouth and I came like never before. I could feel my cock pumping more cum than I have ever shot out before. mike was not letting me up and was sucking me for all the cum I could squirt out.

I was spent and my body relaxed and Mike kept sucking me even when I'm cock got very sensitive. Mike rolled off of me and was talking to Sharon while I was still licking her pussy and was stroking his hard cock looking for relief. She asked me to suck Mikes cock and she would finger herself while she watched us. I moved over Mike and took his cock into my mouth and it did feel so good to suck his big hard cock. I was making very pleasurable sounds as I sucked his hardness.

Soon I could tell he was tensing up and I wanted to suck him off as good as he did me. Sharon was very excited and cheering me on and all of a sudden Mikes cock starting spurting its hot cum. I didn't let a drop go to waste. I do like the taste of hot cum and wanted all of it. Sharon was screaming in load moans and we both could tell she was cumming also. I kept sucking Mikes cock until he went limp in my mouth. Sharon's climax was very good and she was exhausted and just laid there catching her breath.

What a great night that I had no idea this was going to happen. You just never know and I like it unplanned. She got up kissed me and said thanks for being Mikes best birthday present. This had been Mikes birthday wish and I was the chosen one. I was good with that. We laid in bed for a bit and we all fell asl**p. We woke up the next morning and talked for a while. Sharon made breakfast for us. After that Mike took me home. We talked all the way home and he thanked me again for staying last night and that they both had a very good time. He said he would love to get together again sometime by ourselves. I told him I would like that. We did get together twice before they left for the season but that's for another story. I have raging hardon while I'm writing this. What a great time had with both of them. To this day I have a thing for older guys and ladies. Mmmmmmmmm

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