Is It Possible For Girls to have an Orgasm From Hitting the Cervix?

Tue, 01/08/2013 - 09:37
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I am a 17 year old female and I was talking with a guy friend of mine about women having orgasms. We had a little disagreement that I'm now curious about. I told him that a woman usually orgasms from the clitoris whether directly or indirectly, that the g spot is simply indirect stimulation of the clit, and that vaginal orgasms are possible but rare. He claimed that it is possible for girls to have an orgasm from hitting the cervix, which seems like it would be painful rather than pleasurable.

Am I wrong? During intercourse does the penis usually hit the woman's cervix? If it did would that be a pleasure spot? I read somewhere that the cervix moves throughout the month and is higher around the time of ovulation. Is this true?

I have another question too. I'm still a virgin so I don't know if this is true, but i'm guessing being penetrated by a penis would feel different than fingers, and the come hither motion that people say to use to hit the gspot would feel different than a penis hitting it. am I right?

thanks for satisfying my curiosity and providing such a great site :D


Dear S,

Any man who bangs into my cervix gets kicked out of bed. However, soft consistent pressure is quit different and can feel good providing my clitoris continues to be engaged (preferable by me). When a woman gets very turned on, her cervix lifts which is called "ballooning" for some strange reason. This creates more room for deeper penetration. However, very few men have large enough penises to be able go that deep. The idea of banging into a cervix seems to be a male fantasy proving he's a stud. Most men want all the sexual action to take place inside a vagina. The clitoris is a little female phallus that's confusing to most guys as well as women who have one.

Yes, a penis feels different from fingers but there's also similarities. Fingers are best for G spot play if a woman likes it. I do not. To enhance the sensation of being filled by his penis or while using a dildo, a woman can work her PC muscle which feels like vaginal hugs for her partner. I wish all young girls were as inquisitive about seeking information like you. Don't rush into vaginal sex with boys until you have your birth control in place and know how to come with masturbation.

Have an orgasmic self-loving New Year.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Both my girlfriends love

Tue, 08/13/2013 - 06:08
Girl from Pakistan (not verified)

Both my girlfriends love having their cervixes tickled. :/

One of my favourite things

Sun, 04/13/2014 - 13:20
Ivory Anonymous (not verified)

My boyfriend and I enjoy rough sex. He fortunately is large enough to hit my cervix in multiple positions but we can avoid that contact if it's needed. I usually love feeling my cervix being pounded and usually if there is a lot of build up to that I orgasm quite strongly. He also says he enjoys the feeling of getting all the way up there because of how right it gets etc.
I think anything could make a woman cum as long as it's erroneous. I mean some women can orgasm from breast stimulation. I think anything could be pleasurable if you combine it with a little or a lot of clitoral stimulation. Depends on the woman.


Tue, 09/22/2015 - 23:10
Mrowrrr (not verified)

 I absolutely love it when my partner penetrates me realllllllllllly deep and tweaks my cervix. It's like we are becoming one as he's so deep inside of me. This is very intense for me and sometimes sends me into out of body experiences (while I can still feel the physical sensations, if that makes sense).

About Hitting A Woman's Cervix, Interesting

Tue, 01/19/2016 - 03:56

I think I should have read the cervix topic before posting any thing on this. It appears that while many (most?) women find it painful, some like it a lot; I take the point abt the nature of the thrusting, just "banging in" must be painful, but more gentle stimulation is very nice for some.  But I still have doubts abt the situation with my ex-partner and the NPD / SPD spectrum.


The Cervix Issue

Tue, 08/02/2016 - 15:18

I've "bottomed out" making cervix contact with only a handful of women while having intercourse - which is odd, because my finger has massaged the cervix of numerous women. The fact that my 3 1/2 inch finger can reach so many cervix while my 6 inch erect penis has made contact with so few, tells me that most women don't like a hard cock banging against them there.

Cervix Issue

Tue, 09/13/2016 - 14:58
Lichant Chatbri (not verified)

I only can have huge orgasms by cervix stimulation, not hitting my cervix to bruise it, but defenitly the pressure and moderate hitting on my cervix makes me orgasms more intense and more times. CLit orgasm for me is minimal in comparison with cervical orgasms that are really huges, feel the orgasm in my chest, that makes me shake and scream when having them.

Cervix Issue

Sun, 02/12/2017 - 12:16
Nzam (not verified)

I only began having Cervical orgasms after my 2nd child was born (I had a cesarean with my first child). I later left the relationship with the father, and  began seeing someone who had a bigger penis with a slight curve and my sex life has never been the same. I have entered a zone which I wish I had known about much earlier. My partner teases my cervix by alternating with deep and shallow thrusts. Extremely intense wave after wave of orgasms. We both feel so connected. It is as if we were literally made for each other. I can't imagine sex with anyone else. My gynaecologist says I have a forward tilting cervix. Beautiful sex, no matter how it happens is just Heaven on Earth!