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Hi Betty
I have recently discovered in my 30s (thanks to my new partner) that I can ejaculate. It only happens when he uses his fingers inside me, I guess when he pushes on my G Spot. It's more like a gush rather than a squirt and there's usually loads of liquid, like I poured a full glass of water down there! My question is, I never feel like I'm having an orgasm when it happens, in fact, I don't feel it happening at all, it's always a surprise when it does, I only notice when we both get wet. I thought it was meant to feel amazing?! Why don't I feel like I'm having an orgasm? Is that normal/common?
Dear E,
Slowly the truth is emerging about G stimulation and female ejaculation. Most women who have this response say that gushing or squirting is NOT the same as having an orgasm. Men seem to be dedicated to hanging out inside a vagina with their fingers and they mistakenly believe they have just made their partner come, big time! It's similar to their response of ejaculating semen. Also there are those times when squirting does accompany an orgasm. It's just different strokes for different folks.
Or I should say, different responses to different kinds of genital stimulation. Next time he's in there strumming on your vaginal ceiling, just reach down and stimulate your clitoris or use your favorite vibrator. Of course the problem with that is he won't get all the credit for giving you an orgasm.
My advice? Women: its' time for us to own our own orgasms! We are each responsible for creating our orgasms. Its' really nice to have your lover involved, but the orgasm is yours, not his.
Dr. Betty
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Gushing
For me, gushing is something that happens on the way to having my orgasm. I love the feeling of release I get from it, and after about four or five of them, I'm ready to go for my orgasm. My husband ususally helps with the gushing part, but generally I take myself the rest of the way. Yes, for me it's a completely different type of sexual release and does not replace clitoral orgasm at all.
Female ejaculation
I ejaculate with pentration, but like the women Betty alludes to, I don't consider it an orgasm at all. It's a pleasurable sensation for me, but one that can be completely seperate from orgasm (I could stick my fingers up there right now without being at all aroused and make it happen - it wouldn't be an orgasm) or that can accompany an orgasm if it happens at that moment.
Sure, it feels great if I make myself ejaculate at the moment I orgasm, but it's just another added sensation. An orgasm without it isn't lacking anything at all.
(and although it's not mentioned here, I like how people always advise ejaculators to put a towel down. A towel? I don't know about anyone else, but it's a case of flipping over the whole mattress! Messy business.)
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WOW I'm so glad to have read
WOW I'm so glad to have read this. I often get pleasant feelings from ejaculating as a female, but rarely are they ever orgasmic. I wondered why.... It gives my partner a lot of pleasure to see me ejac. (It happens all the time too lol which is messy), but for me it is a nice feeling of release, but usually the good feelings actually happen just before the ejac. not during. Still I prefer orgasms, and think I could enjoy ejac more if it were not so damn messy. and whatever gets wet needs to be washed quickly lest it bring the greatest stink ever known to man. goddammit, hate that about it! but it's still fun :)
Stink?
In my experience, the fluid is totally and completely colourless, tasteless and ordourless. Once it has dried you'd have no idea where it ever was, nothing worse than warm water really :)
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