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Younger Partner Has Me Questioning My Ejaculate & Nipples

Mon, 05/21/2012 - 08:33
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello Betty,

I have follow you almost from your very beginnings and I find myself aging slowly. I am now somewhere between bi/lesbian with a history of a few partners. I will be 60 in a few days and right now I'm enjoying the company of a cute woman half my age.

And she has introduced me to her strap-on dildo... and i am enjoying sex with this woman to the tune of multible orgasms. But my question is I think I only ejaculate (squirting) while my lady cums with a nice thicker warm liquid. I seem to not have that. I have been in menopause about 5 years while lady still has a period. I love our sex both with toys and fingers and anything we can press together.

Also I have never been able to do doggy style i don't seem to line up but I do have my partner use her hand to bring to orgasm in that position i want to try this position with a the strap on. Whats the problem?

And lastly my nipples stick out about 3/4 inch while my partners don't and i feel embarrassed i have look for her nipples to caress them, how can we get them to stand up?

Thanks for being there
Happily having sex

Dear M,

Congratulation on being a sexy senior. Just so you know, 60 is still quite young. When you reach your 70's you will be in the youth of old age. That was a great decade for me. Now as I travel into my 80's I find it just keeps getting better (but in different ways other than physical sex). I have never "ejaculated" and don't intend to learn. Since your new lover is half your age, don't worry about comparing what you squirt. The whole ejaculation for women is just too messy for me to embrace.

Also don't worry about her nipples either. The way for her to get them to grow is simply by stimulating them during sexual arousal. Or you can role play and be a baby who sucks on them a lot. As for Doggie style, just keep experimenting with no expectations. Hold a vibrator on your clit while she's fucking you from behind. Also use your pelvic floor muscle by squeezing and releasing them. Check out my info under Betty's Barbell. Just continue to enjoy yourselves. You make me proud.

Dr. Betty

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