Dear Dr. Betty (and Carlin!)
Not a question, just a letter of gratitude. I'm a nineteen year old girl who's been reading this site since I was sixteen. I came across D&R when I was doing my own research online after I became frustrated with the non-information being spouted at me in sex ed.
Although I have masturbatory memories as far back as I can remember, from ages 12-16 the only way I could come was with a showerhead. Eventually through this site I learned to come with my hand, with a vibrator, watching porn and with my own fantasies.
I'm a virgin (I know you don't like that word, but you know what I mean) and you've helped me take so many steps toward owning my sexuality. Thank you so much! You gave me the confidence to buy my first sex toys, learn to penetrate myself, and discover what I like. All my girlfriends started having partnersex a few years ago and all I hear from them is how they don't take anything from the experience. I believe that the things I've learned from D&R and the confidence I've gained in my sexuality because of them will help me have positive experiences when I start having partnersex.
Yours in adoration,
Emails like yours are music to my ears. What a smart young woman you are to learn about yourself before you leap into sex with a boy. These young men have no idea what to do other than to put their penis in her vagina, anus or mouth! Oh those raging hormones! Now when you share your body with someone you like, you can be clear about what you want and even show him how you prefer to be touched. That's the way to begin a love affair. Stay in touch with us.