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How Can I Reduce the Chance of Farting While Reaching Orgasm?

Wed, 02/15/2012 - 15:04
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr. Betty,

This is a really embarrassing question, but I sometimes fart when I orgasm. I'm sure it's a fart and not a queef. It happened in front of a partner for the first time recently because my partner was trying really hard to make me orgasm and I felt like I was taking to long, so I tensed my body and stimulated myself with my hands intensely to make myself have a very quick orgasm which was also accompanied by a very loud fart and I was humiliated.

Now I hold myself back from reaching orgasm when we have sex because I'm afraid it will happen again.This sometimes happens when I masturbate as well. Is it something I'm doing wrong? Or is there something I can do to reduce the chance of farting while reaching orgasm.

Dear D,

You named your problem quite well: " I felt like I was taking to long, so I tensed my body and stimulated myself with my hands intensely to make myself have a very quick orgasm." I also suspect you were bearing down or pushing out and any gas in the lower bowel just had no choice but to escape. Yes, it's embarrassing but only because we act like we don't shit, fart or belch!

This is just the result of have a human body. No need to make a federal case out of a little old fart. If if happens again just laugh it off. Or make a joke like, "I hope I didn't just push out a turd." Once couples live together a while and get used to each other, fart jokes often are the rule not the exception.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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I think it's obvious from

Wed, 02/15/2012 - 17:00
Elin A (not verified)

I think it's obvious from your comment that you were trying to have an orgasm faster to satisfy your partners ego. This tells me you don't have much respect for your own body and sexual pace.  Why else would you want to tense your body and have a quick, most likely less satisfying orgasm? I also guess that a person with such insecurities will be more humiliated and afraid of a possible fart. If your self-esteem is good, it might be embarassing at the moment, but it's not really a problem. And you don't try to force your orgasm, but take your time.
Seems to me you should learn to respected your body - all of it and its functions as well as yourself.

Pussy farts

Wed, 02/15/2012 - 18:59
Fond Care

Dear D
You might like to watch the BodySex video where Sayaka discusses coming to terms with orgasms that include vaginal farting. Coming to terms with anal farting during sex is just like Betty says, you come to terms with them with your partner.
 

I have the same problem

Fri, 04/13/2012 - 09:09
Anonymous999 (not verified)

I have the same problem everytime i masturbate. Would taking Gas X on a night i knew we were going to have sex help?

Honest Question

Response

Sat, 05/19/2012 - 02:41
sasa111

GINGER TEA WORKS WONDERS for gas. 5 to 6 thin slices of ginger root and bring about 4 cups of water to a boil then simmer for 20 minutes.

Response

Sat, 05/19/2012 - 02:41
sasa111

GINGER TEA WORKS WONDERS for gas. 5 to 6 thin slices of ginger root and bring about 4 cups of water to a boil then simmer for 20 minutes.

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