Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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Betty's Vaginal Barbell |
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My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION |
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Betty Dodson's Bodysex Workshop DVD |
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Betty Dodson Liberating women one orgasm at a time |
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Carlin Ross Sex, Politics & More Sex |
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Eric Amaranth Sex life coaching, real life erotica, and wellness |
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Liandra Dahl Sex Documentarian |
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LilithLand Women, Sex, Culture & Relationships |
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Christina Cicchelli Professional Pervert |
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Dr. Lulu History & the Material Culture of Sex |
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Eric Francis Astrology & Adventure |
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Jenn Parenthood. With Cursing |
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Jessica Kramer Liberating Birth |
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Kasini Poet. Educator. Catalyst. Mother. |
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LesleyS Redefining my sexual self after babies. |
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Logan Levkoff sexologist, sex educator, intellisexual, author, mom |
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Marisa Black Finding room for all of me |
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Marylou Naccarato Learn how to raise your level of “Sexability” |
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Palesa Art + Sex + Media + Empowerment |
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Solo Sexualist |
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I am 37 and have amazing orgasms only when my partner hits my g-spot through vaginal intercourse, or when I stimulate my clitoris area under a running water faucet in the bath. Even what feels like the most amazing oral sex or my own efforts to stimulate my clitoris (using fingers or vibrators) doesn't get me to an orgasm. I know clitoral orgasm is possible because of my experience with the faucet, but I can't seem to get there any other way. My partner is very generous with oral sex and I would like to orgasm from that. Help!
Dear K,
Since you have several ways to enjoy orgasm, don't make such a big deal out of not being able to come with your fingers, vibrators or oral sex. Coming from vaginal intercourse is most women's dream of a perfect sex life so enjoy it. Just keep practicing clitoral stimulation on dry land using massage oil and I'm sure you will get there. Meanwhile you have the bathtub and hubby. So count your blessings: it's not like you are going without orgasms.
Dr. Betty
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