Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a 27 year old woman who has not had an orgasm since I was 15. I don't know what happened. There was a guy that I liked and he attempted to give me oral sex. All was well until the moment where I was about to release and I somehow stopped myself. I tried everything but, nothing seems to work. Now I have a boyfriend who wants more than anything to please me. The first time he went down on me all was well but, I did not cum.

Is there something wrong with me?

Dear E,

The only thing wrong with you is Standard American Sexual Repression. First, it begins with the absence of childhood masturbation. This happens in many ways, I'll let you decide which one applies to you. Since you have never learned how to have orgasms by exploring your own body, you remain a victim of happenstance relying on a boy who doesn't understand female sexuality any better than you do. It's called the blind leading the blind. To make matters worse, he is now unknowingly putting pressure on you to come as a measure of his sexual success. Double trouble. Read How to Orgasm and begin practicing by yourself. Once you succeed, you can then tell your BF what you like.

Dr. Betty