Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Hi Betty,

I'm 23 and I've been sexually active since 17 to my boyfriend at the time. It was never sex as I experience now and it soon became something we didn't do often. I have since had a few more relationships and a few sexual partners all to which I have experimented with and tried lots of new things but never been able to climax during oral or sex.. I can make myself come easy alone and fantasizing. But I've even tried doing it in front of a partner and I still couldn't. I felt close but just couldn't get over that bridge. It's embarrassing that I can't with a new partner who I am with now. He feels amazing and does all the right things but it just gets too intense and I make him stop. I don't like to bring it up but I want to cos I know he wants me to feel good.

Dear K,

When it gets too intense that's a good sign you need to be doing your own clitoris. He's in charge of his penis and does what feels good for him, so how come you can't do the same? Be in charge of your primary sex organ to enjoy your own orgasms. It's difficult to come with oral sex and forget about coming with vaginal penetration. Very few women can respond to that. Simply reach down and do your own clitoris while your fucking. Get my book Orgasms for Two that goes into details of ways for women to come during partnersex.

Dr. Betty