Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm a 25yr old single male. I've been single for 2yrs now, and have not had sex in those 2yrs. It hasn't been easy. I've had the opportunity to have a few one night stands but I haven't gone through with it. That's just not my thing and I'd prefer it to be with someone that I'm in a relationship with.

Long story short, self-pleasure has been my only release. I do this 3-4 times a week on average. Sometimes I masturbate on a daily basis. Lately I've been wondering if this is a bad thing. When I do meet someone and become intimate with them, will I be so used to masturbating that I ejaculate quickly? I feel like I've set myself up for embarrassment and that I should lay off masturbating for a while now. Any advice?

Dear S,

Actually masturbating is a good idea. Otherwise when you do have sex with a partner you will pop right off due sexual deprivation. Just don't always do quickies watching porn because that will mess up partner sex. Learn ejaculation control while you are masturbating and train yourself to hold off. We love a guy who can keep it up when it feels so good. Check in with my protege Eric Amaranth for some advanced masturbation skills. He teaches using Skype. Or read some of his blogs on the website for ideas of how to be a smooth lover.

Dr. Betty