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Hi,

I'm 19 years old and I have only really been masturbating for about half a year. Before that I would only dry hump my bed, but this would only feel good and I would never have an orgasm.

Then whenever I tried to touch myself with my hands, I wouldn't really feel anything and I still don't. I've tried for hours, but nothing, even if I use porn. So since I was so frustrated I decided to buy myself a toy. Since then I have had my first orgasm and I enjoy masturbating.

But I can only do it with my vibrating bullet. Now, I'm worried that if a guy will try to "pleasure" me with his hand or even by oral it won't feel good since I can't do it by myself. I've had some guys touch me with their hands and it feels ok, but it's nothing great and I'm not surprised since it's the same for me when I try with my hands. Is this normal? And what can I do to orgasm just with my hands (I feel like I've tried every technique)?

Thank you,
Btw love your youtube videos :)

Dear M,

Your problem is like so many other girls who didn't grow up masturbating with their fingers. Read "How to Orgasm" and follow my basic steps. You can also read my book Sex for One or Orgasms for Two. The second one suggests that women have every right to use their vibrators during sex with a partner.

He's going to get the ideal stimulation thrusting inside your vagina which doesn't do much for us. For a minority of women it does work but it's very difficult to learn. I simply brought my vibrator to bed with me. Look at this way, his fingering and oral is foreplay for your vibrator orgasm. Or use the vibrator during intercourse. My favorite.

Dr. Betty