Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I'm having trouble keeping a good rhythm with my boyfriend while we are having sex. He will be going at a good pace and I'm getting into it and then all of a sudden he will go really fast and then later suddenly change to penetrating really slow. It's just all over the place and starts to turn me off after awhile. I've tried talking to him about it, but nothing has changed. Do you have any advice for another way of trying to explain it to him or anything I can do?

Thank you!

Dear J,

If you are with a guy who cannot listen or hear what you're saying it's really a dead end isn't it? I'd try to explain myself at least three times and then if you can't get though, I think it's best just to accept him the way he is. This is one of the main reasons I support women to stimulate their clitorises during intercourse. If you research male circumcision it answers many of the questions as to why so many men can't sustain a smooth rhythm during penis/vagina sex. Sometimes it's better to have your orgasms from oral or manual sex and save fucking for procreation purposes, not end pleasure and orgasm.

Dr. Betty