Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I have been with my boyfriend M for 3 and a half years. Recently, he told me he has been fantasizing about having sex with me and other men. We both decided that this sounded exciting. I was just wondering if you have any advice for my first time? I think im okay with anal, vaginal, and double penetration. I need to know how to properly prepare for anal sex, to prevent any embarrassing situations. Also, we were thinking of recruiting M friends for the extra partners...do you think this is a good idea?

Thank you,
B

Dear B,

Only you can answer your question as to whether or not this is a good idea. Unless you have enjoyed anal sex with your boyfriend before, I wouldn't do it for the first time during a three-way. Too much going on all at once. After you have gotten comfortable having anal sex with your boyfriend, then you can consider double pen with ONE of his friends that you like.

The preparation for anal would be rinsing out your lower bowel with a Fleet enema. Dump out the contents of the Fleet enema and replace it with bottled water. Do this at least an hour before sex. And be sure to use plenty of lube, go slow and YOU must be in charge of how the scene progresses. Everyone needs to agree that you can stop the action at any point.

Dr. Betty