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Did Labiaplasty Ruin My Sex Life?

Mon, 02/07/2011 - 14:32
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I stupidly already have had the labiaplasty procedure. I was so uncomfortable not with my looks but the way I felt just walking naked, or doing yoga, or other things where the long labia got in the way. So a few years ago I decided to get labiaplasty. Now I can't orgasm. Never have anyway, but I am upset and scared that I ruined my body forever. I am only 24 years old and would like to experience that orgasm sensation.

Do you have any tips for me to improve the way I feel during sex? Sex still feels really good and I do have feeling down there its just not an orgasm. I know I should have put more thought into the surgery, but I felt so uncomfortable for so long I thought it was the answer. I have anxiety about doing the wrong thing and I dont want it to ruin the rest of my sexual life.

Dear RB,

You have NOT ruined the rest of your sex life. I'm assuming you didn't have orgasms before the surgery. It's not about "tips" my dear woman, it's about learning sexual skills. The information is all over our website. Go to "First Time Orgasm." Get my books "Sex for One" and "Orgasms for Two." Go to the video section and download all the sex information that's available there. It's clear and visual.

You simply need to educate yourself about female sexuality and stop worrying about making a mistake. We all make dumb decisions at some point during our lifetimes. You are a victim of aggessive medical professionals. If your doctor said labiaplasty might help with your lack of orgasm, I'd sue the SOB. The absence of orgams is your lack of growing up masturbating, no sex education and basically America's backward attitudes toward Sex and Pleasure in general. Luckily you have found the perfect website to get you started on your way to becoming an orgasmic woman.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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labia longer

Wed, 09/21/2011 - 20:20
genest (not verified)

hey i am really embaresed of my minora size, when i stand up it stcks out about 1 cm long and i hate it ! my boyfriend says its not embaassing but soon i have an appointement to see a gynenecologist for the first time and im so shy to talk to her about that before being examine i dont want her to say im  not normal

Don't be embarrassed!

Thu, 09/22/2011 - 01:18
Heylin

I've worked in the medical field for a while. When we gather round to tell our GYN stories, I can tell you that a woman with long labia has never been discussion worthy.  I'm sure if you ask your GYN, she will tell you that your labia is normal.

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