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Orgasm Alone But Can't With My Boyfriend

Mon, 01/17/2011 - 22:01
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm 20 years old and I can reach orgasm and arousal so easily by either masturbation or watching porn. But even when my guy does the same thing i do..and stimulates the clitoris and does oral...i cant even get really aroused or even close to orgasm...ever! i dont know why...whats wrong?

Dear AE,

Nothing is wrong. You are learning how to socialize your sexuality. One way to break through this would be to share masturbation together. You do yourself and he does himself. After a few sessions together, chance are you will feel more at ease. Get my book "Orgasms for Two" and read it together. You can masturbate yourself while he penetrates your vagina. Don't demand instant success, just take your time while learning about each other's bodies.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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