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Hate Being Female Because It's Impossible for Me to Orgasm During Sex

Wed, 01/19/2011 - 20:41
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Much of the time i hate being a female because it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to orgasm through sex. Why did God make it so difficult for women to orgasm and so easy for men to orgasm through sexual intercourse? I would want to engage in sex with him if it was more pleasurable for me. I think most women would agree.

Dear P,

Hating your femaleness is self-defeating. And yes, intercourse would be more pleasurable if all women could orgasm from it like men. But humans are pretty smart and some of us gals have figured out ways to even the orgasm score. For instance, once we get REALLY turned on, we are bottomless pits of pleasure. In fact, many men have been intimidated by women's orgasmic capabilities. For me and many other liberated women, this is where the electric vibrators come in. Since God didn't have electricity back then, He had no way of knowing what he had wrought by giving us a clitoris that's designed purely for pleasure! Get my book "Orgasms for Two" and check out the info there. Once a woman takes charge of her primary sex organ the clitoris, she can rock and roll for hours with a vibe of her preference. Time for you to do some experimenting.

Dr. Betty

Also, I know my attitude is not helping but after SO many years of not being able to get any satisfaction and seeing men, over and over again getting pleasure out of their penises, i feel that women totally got the short end of the stick. They have a their penis which is SO sensitive and long. We have this tiny little thing which is barely the size of a penny and 50% of women can't even enjoy it. And why do we have to use vibrators? Men don't.

God made us wrong and I am totally pissed off because of that.

Yes, my attitude is horrible, but I have not found anything or anyone who can prove to me otherwise.

P

Dear P,

If you would take the time to educate yourself about the female sex organ you would learn that women have nearly as much erectile tissue as men. Ours is internal and doesn't show except engorgement of the clitoral glans and the inner and outer lips. Get my book Orgasms for Two or A New View of a Woman's Body or The Clitoral Truth. They will all inform you about your badly neglected sex organ and perhaps change your self-defeating attitude.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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What God Made

Fri, 01/21/2011 - 22:12
johnmgrace

Dear "Hate Being Female" and Betty
I have found it VERY clarifying to read the book "Sex at Dawn" by Ryan and Jetha. What God or evolution made in woman was a creature that was designed to get more and more excited by having lots of different men over the time of her ovulation and be able to stay up on a high plateau with multiple orgasms a part of the build. During non ovulation times woman was designed to enjoy the pleasure of relating including erotic exchanges that were geared to both smooth life and reduce tensions and to encourage the likelyhood of multiple males being around when she was ovulating. Similarly, men evolved to be excitable and fast so that women could have more than one, with competition amoung men happening in the woman's reproductive tract. The strong instinct in men to enjoy many different partners is also part of this mix.
This is what God or evolution created - what agricultural society does with it is a very dificult distortion for many of us to live with.
I don't think this book will help you with orgasms, Betty's "Sex for One" will be much more help, but it certainly gave me an "of course, it all fits" sort of understanding and a greater compassion for myself and the people around me. Do read it.

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