Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Hi Dr. Betty!

I can't have a second orgasm. I've heard that some women release a chemical in the brain right after one orgasm that just shuts off sexual interest. ?? When I try to go for a second orgasm, I can't get my clit interested. I'm with you on fantasy... it really gets me there the first time... but I can't find any way to turn back on after the first TOTALLY ABRUPTLY drops off the arrousal cliff.

I'm guessing you'll say I just have to go slower and keep searching for what might feel good after? Maybe shift off clit to vaginal or breast stim for a moment... keep looking because somewhere, there is a path in my body that leads to a second or third whahoo???

I listen to you and Carlin talk about riding one orgasm then backing off and finding that second wave etc... and I want to find that for myself. It sounds like so much more than my tension self-love wham-bam-thank-you-mame.

Keep trying?

THANKS for teaching me so much over the years Betty!

-M

Okay Girlfriend,

Back to basics. Besides a vibrator on your clit, a rock and roll also requires pelvic rocking, PC muscle squeezing and releasing on my vaginal barbell that sits inside your vagina with the weight holding it there. Meanwhile your are breathing rhythmically deeply and fully.

This is how I teach during a private session.  Watch the Orgasm Doctor clip under Videos. In fact, watch several. For me, visual learning is what works. As you see, words can float around with different meanings. That's what they mean when they say "One picture is worth a thousand words." Don't forget to enjoy the process. Getting there maybe the biggest part of the pleasure.

Dr. Betty