Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Better Orgasms. Better World.

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Amidst the media blitz for Sex and the City II, there is a glimmer of reality.  Kim Cattrall has revealed that most of her life wasn't sexually fulfilling ie she wasn't having orgasms.

I got out Kim's book "Sexual Intelligence" for the first time! There was a nice comment on the inside page to me: "Betty --- You are a wonder! Thanks for sharing your sexual intelligence with us. Best, Kim Catrall."

At the time, I was still a one woman CEO trying to do it all, so I never had time to look at books. I barely had enough time to write them. I'm mentioned throughout Kim's book. Quoted even, and they reproduced several of my pen and ink vulva drawings.
I had no idea until today! They use "vulva" throughout the book which I appreciated as I made an issue of the importance of correctly naming our sex organs.

When her film crew showed up to interview me for the documentary, the only thing that made the cut was my comment about what kids needed to be told instead of the standard: Little Billy has a penis and little Mary has a vagina and bla, bla, bla. My change was as follows: Little Billy has a penis and little Mary has a clitoris and when they touch them in a special way, it feels good.

I"m not at all surprised Kim was pre-orgasmic until she was 40. Over the years I have coached several big name women actors struggling with orgasm. Being beautiful and having a great body does NOT guarantee a woman will also be sexually fulfilled. On the contrary, it's often quite the opposite.

Just like younger girls today who are considered "hot." They "hook up" which often means bending over (something) at a club, lifting her skirt and literally "getting fucked" with no orgasm for her. It's all about being "desirable" or "popular" or"scoring" some guy all the other girls think is "cute." That's my definition of a "sex object." To be a sex subject would require both parties to enjoy orgasms.

The clip in Huffpost showing Kim as a brokendown pole dancer was ridiculous. She is gorgeous and looks so much sexier with those 15 pounds added. One of the shitheads watching comments on her needing "Depends" while some retard pays her homage. Dodson&Ross have a lot to work to do to counter the male image of SEX that is so superficial it's hard to compute. Problem is, women covet the same superficial image!!!!