Will Labiaplasty Help Me Orgasm?

Sun, 12/20/2009 - 00:53
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I don't have especially long labia, but I was wondering if labiaplasty could help me. I'm 22 and I've never had an orgasm, even though I try to masturbate regularly and have used a vibrator. I love having sex and my body and I don't have any hangups, so now I'm wondering if my problem could actually be in my anatomy. My clit is tucked away between lots of folds, and it's not very sensitive and my partner can't reach it with oral sex. In my case, could labiaplasty to trim everything help?

Dear BH,

Labiaplasty does NOT help a woman learn to have orgasms. Have you read First Time Orgasm on my website? If so read it again and follow my easy step by step process. Our genital anatomy is rarely the problem for a woman wanting to learn how to have orgasm. My experience suggest it's always about learning sexual skills and that doesn't happen overnight. So stay away from the hungry plastic surgeons who will be more than happy to take your money and it still won't garauantee orgasm but practice and patience will.

Dr. Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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"Will Labiaplasty Help Me

Mon, 12/21/2009 - 06:40
Nata22 (not verified)

"Will Labiaplasty Help Me Orgasm?" No? no and once more time NO!

If your clit hud will cutting, at first time it may be hiper- sensitive, but temporary only! One or two month late clit will coarsen... and sensitive will down permanently.

If you have long labias, they work as a lever-system and LONG labias assist "translating" all sex stimulating signals from lips - to clit. But after surgery you LOST lever-system assist and may have more trouble with orgasm.

Naturally long labias is better and it is a native pass to orgasm!

How to reach an orgasm

Sat, 03/13/2010 - 04:59
Honey James (not verified)

Hello. My name is Pam and I use to be imbarrassed about my genital area once, because I had a big clitoris and long libloids and for some reason my clitoris doesn't stick out as much and I don't know why. I soon found out that most men love the big clitoris and the large libloids. I heard most of them say it's beautiful and when i first meet a man and we get comfortable enough to talk about our genital areas, the first uestions they ask me is, "do i have the lips that hang out?" WHen i say yes to this question, they get excited. I think most women don't experience an orgasm, because they don't know what to expect. Once you learn your body and what turns you on you have a better chance at getting one. If your with a man that's not all that experienced with knowing a womans body and what turns her own, there's a posibility that you want get one either. I had my first orgasm when I had sex with a man whom penis curved slightly upward, because that is where a woman's G-Spot sits and when I got it, it was because the man kept hitting that spot in me which eventually became week after so much penetration and i said to myself, "that's what they are talking about when they say ORGASM". That's when I knew what type of penis could satify me completley and as I grew older and got more experienced, i realized that if a man constantly penetrates against your clitoris it brings you an orgasm. Now, i'm at the point i can get a strong orgasm if both areas are penetrated at the same time. We must understand also that sometimes getting an orgasm depends on the mood, whom we're with and how hot/stimulated we are. Ladies every man doesn't know how to give good oral, if a man knows what he's doing when giving oral sex he will find your clitoris regardless of how much or how less skin you have covering it and focus on stimulating it and at the same time, ladies tighten up your muscles as he's doing it and it will help you achieve an orgasm. Penetration and knowing your body is the key. Now when i have sex with a man i can get an orgasm even when he's not inside of me by hm sucking my breast and also by me laying on top of him and stimulating my genitals against his penis as i tighten up my muscles whether he's on hard or not.

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