Newbie Lesbian Needs Oral Sex Pointers

Mon, 09/15/2008 - 14:29
Submitted by Betty Dodson


im a 19 yr old lesbian girl, i have only came out on the scene and i am being flocked by women, however i have had some sexual encounters but they haven't went that far..... now my main fear/concern is oral sex, im worried i may not be able to pleasure the woman and maybe she mite not like it, i know this sounds silly but i would like my partner to squirt..... because then i will know for definate it was good for her, do you have any advice for me????

Dear Newbie,

Good news about all the women who are interested in you. That's exciting, yes?

As for your question, please do not think that making a woman squirt is proof that she has had an orgasm. This is how insecure men think. Now, Listen up! A woman can squirt and it might have nothing to do with having an orgasm. Sometimes it happens when a woman comes hard and some times NOT. Another thing, not all woman have this particular kind of sexual response. So forget the idea that your first lover must perform like she's in a Carnival act and must female ejaculate to prove you were good at giving head. Just talk, get to know each other and as you get more comfortable, ask what she likes. Maybe start off kissing. Then share masturbation. Talk some more. Focus on the woman, not on her orgasm wet or dry. Good communication with the right lubrication can be the hottest sex of all. Enjoy!

Dr. Betty


Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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