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My Labia Gets Swollen & Sore After Sex

Sun, 06/01/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello,

I am quite young and I have had sex with quite the variety of people and never had a problem until recently. I have used the same condoms, switched brands and materials multiple times, had an allergy test, and tried new partners, new positions - everything! No matter who I have any kind of sex with these days my labia minora becomes swollen for days and it is so sore that it makes it hard to walk. I am aware this is normal around the time you have sex but cannot figure out with what causes this to last for days. Shouldn't it subside without Benadryl among other medical things?

Bethany

Dear Bethany,

As a rule, any kind of discomfort or pain before, during, or after sex is an indication that we are doing something wrong and our bodies complain with pain. My first thought was your inner labia are sore after intercourse due to friction that is too dry. So check out the kind of lubricant you're using and if you're not using any, start now. The water based lubes have a lot of chemicals so you must experiment with different ones. Another possibility is that you have some kind of skin condition that could be treated, but NOT with Benadryl which is much too strong for the pretty petals of our sex organs. As a matter of fact, Benadryl just might be the culprit. Since I don't know your age, the state of your health or the exact kind of partnersex you have, there is not much more I can say. If you have access to a woman's health clinic, go check out your pussy with a nurse practitioner who deals with women's issues. Let me know when you figure this out and I'll share the information with others. 

Betty

Liberating women one orgasm at a time

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Swollen Labia

Wed, 04/29/2009 - 18:55
Anonymous User (not verified)

hi I have a question and an experience.
For the past few months I have been having sex and my labia gets swollen... and then there's this awful liquid and smell that comes out of my vagina.... kinda brownish.... cream.
I have a way of using powder down there on the other part of my vagina before i have sex.... i wonder of that could be the problem, but then sometimes during sex my clitoris seems to be brushing aagainst him and tha also hurts.... I am wondering if I should go and check myself...
Sometimes if I sit on the bed and get up after 5 minutes or less.... the sheet is wet with the running of the thick crust stuff in my vagina, and like I said it leaves an awful scent....

Please tell me what I shoud do?

My dear woman you have what

Wed, 04/29/2009 - 23:09
Betty Dodson

My dear woman you have what is called trichomonas, a vaginal condition that is familiar to most all clinicians. It's easily treated but you must have your partner treated also as it can be passed back and forth. It's not all that serious but as you've seen, it burns and smells awful.

Until it's cleared up refrain from masturbating and having sex with your partner.

Get my Almond Oil for "down there" (I can't believe women still use that term) and dump the powder that probably has all kinds of chemicals in it especially if its scented. Then pick a name for your vulva, pussy, clit, twat or cunt. Anything but vagina or va jay jay which is like calling your sex organ a pee pee. Then make friends with her by by using our search engine to find First Time Orgasm and following the first section of my directions for Vulva viewing.

Dr. Betty

 

my vagina is swollen

Thu, 09/24/2009 - 04:38
Anonymous (not verified)

my vagina is swollen i have been with the same partner for some time and this has never happened it doesnt itch and noo discharge just my right clit is swollen do ihave a medical condition or anything like that can you please let me know i am kind of worried.
angel

First, you only have one

Thu, 09/24/2009 - 17:43
Carlin Ross

First, you only have one clit - there's no left or right clit. Second, I think you're describing an erection. Yes, women can get erections. Your outer right lip is swollen with blood from being excited and stimulated. It will do down in no time.

Here's a clip from Betty that explains everything: First, you only have one clit - there's no left or right clit. Second, I think you're describing an erection. Yes, women can get erections. Your outer right lip is swollen with blood from being excited and stimulated. It will do down in no time.

Here's a clip from Betty that explains everything:

"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson

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