Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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We get this question all the time - here's Betty's answer.
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Does my clit work?
What do I do if my clitoris feels alright to touch at first, but I don't orgasm because it goes numbish? i've tried switching my position and laying off it for a few minutes and then going back, I've tried going softer, going harder. When I was younger (like 7), I found my mom's vibrator but didn't really know what a vagina was or how to use a vibrator, so I took it out of this penis-shaped jelly-rebber mold and the vibrations felt realy good on the labia, but I discovered where my clitoris was. I didn't know even after this that it was a clit, but I knew SOMETHING was there. And it hurt when I pressed it on my clit on maximum vibration. I felt some aftershocks a few minutes after that, which actually felt really good, but my clit area still stung and hurt. Did I kill some of my clit nerves? Is that why my clit doesn't make me feel orgasmic? Is there a way to solve this problem and feel good with my clit like every other woman I know? Please email me back.
OH MY GOSH!
A little over an hour ago, I had an amazing orgasm, all thanks to my clirotis!
I noticed something, I have only had one other orgasm that was as intense as this one, and it was a vaginal orgasm. The difference was, my pace quickened back then and I felt the orgasm travel up my spine and down to my toes, it felt like an explosion.
This one was more amazing, becuase it was so centralized to my lower back and genital are, but more specifically, it fel t like waves crashing over eachother and just spilling out of my lower stomach (the navel area). It was amazing.
I used this blue vibrating neck massager in the shape of a hand and played all over the vulva, massaging the labia and then going back to circle the clit, and doing that same pattern over and over and then eventually just rocked it all around my clit and... WOW! Best orgasm EVER (so far).
I know I sounded like a downer in the last comment, but I was feeling so desperate and helpless (and honestly, feeling sexually dysfunctional is really depressing).
I owe you so much thanks, Betty Dodsan and Carlin Ross, because if it weren't for the information and encouragement you put out there, I would never have had this experience. Thank you SOOOOOO much!!!!
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