Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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It gives a totally new meaning to what my friend said to me after I went out with her and her girlfriend to the beach. She said that she's a bit jealous because her girlfriend found my hands really attractive.

BTW tonight I dreamed of diddling said girlfriend. What's with me and weird sex dreams? I'm either licking my sister's cunt or breaking up somebody's relationship. Luckily the sex nightmares stopped after I wrote about them here - somehow they lost their power to hurt and just disappeared.

I'm not complaining, trust me, but I do want to point out that one thing I am hoping to change is the common use of the word 'uncircumcised'. I am no more uncircumcised that you are Betty and Carlin. My genitals are normal, natural, whole, intact..  even "not circumcised" is better, I think.

The word uncircumcised for the natural state of the penis makes circumcised the default word. As well, I think its unfortunate that the only way to refer to an intact penis in our culture is to mention a surgery that cuts them. I don't feel like I am 'UN' anything. you know?

I believe some women are called uncircumcised in cultures that practice female genital cutting, and no one wants to be called that.

Now, I KNOW in your video you were actually talking about how that was a positive feature that he wasn't circumcised.. and I think that is REALLY awesome that you mentioned that. I just bring it up because I would love to get that word OUT of our vocabulary... you know?

Maybe you, Betty, or Carlin, would like to make a post or video about this issue? Just an idea..

As for the rest fo the video.. TOTALLY AWESOME as usual. I love you both.

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24 - M - Critical Relativist and Feminist (Equalist) - Canada

At first I just stroked her arm because she was tiklish, I had no other intentions.

I was stroking the underside of her arm with my fingertips, while her arm was lying on the table. But when I stopped she insisted that I keep doing it, only later I realized that it was an erogenous zone, but practically the whole body is.

I agree that the size of a dick isn't the only thing that makes sex great. There is one thing that older lovers have in common.....time.....no need to act like a jack rabbit. Sex is a gift that keeps giving. There have been times where no climax happens. No mess to keep off of the sheets.

I love to lick my fingers before, during and after I've had them where she likes them, in her tight pussy. Love to lick the back of her neck and all the way down her back past the crack of her butt to the clit. Just looking at her clit makes my pulse rate climb. Having long fingers isn't necessarily as important as how the finger can do things that a dick can't.

Dicks don't have joints or knuckles. Although one of my most favorite things to do is carefully press my pubic bone tightly against her's and twitch my dick as deep as is comfortable inside her slowly....very slowly. Not in or out, just enough pressure to have her feel the pussy sensation of
fullness.

Getting a woman to reach orgasm using my finger requires patience. Oft' times I become so intent on making her satisfied that I loose my erection. But, you know what???? After she cums, her pussy tightens and that creates a more erotic environment that allows for a deeper feeling in my orgasm. If all this takes 2 hours or more, the better. The present record, recently, is almost 3 hours of pure pleasure. No kiddin.

P S. Writing this account made me wet my Jockies. Have a good afternoon.

Dear B @ C, so very true... culture slices and dices the whole person into an assemblage of fetished parts to the detriment of us all - as if the person is merely the sum of said parts so, yes, hands are important but attitudes and opinions count for so much more in my book. Best wishes one and all, Chu

This is a difficult issue and more research needs to be done. I use a dildo and vibrator to repetitively climax my partner. When she 'Can't take it anymore' we switch to my attachment.

This is a great post thanks ladies. I have a smaller dick myself and learned early on that the best way to over come that is to be a expert on giving oral sex. I was lucky when I was 19 a 48 year old lady gave me lessons and lots of pratice giving great oral sex. I LOVE EATING PUSSY! When I am done with that my 5 1/4 inch dick does his thing.