Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Those jerks! I'll be thinking about you guys! How do people get off on censoring educational material that will dramatically improve peoples lives?! Lawsuits against sex educators? Agh!

What, did I go through a timewarp? Are we still in the puritanical Victorian era? Learning about sex isn't going to make us all get "hysteria" and die from "self-abuse".

BTW, I loved the MakeLoveNotPorn IDEA.. I've been trying to come up with some of my own, and talking about it with friends. Especially when you find out people are first seeking out porn around age 10, its important to make sure these kids have some kind of LOGICAL, EDUCATIONAL place where they can have their inevitable misconceptions straightened out. ScarletTeen is one of the best on the web for all kinds of sex-related issues... but MakeLoveNotWar seems to be taking a different and more porn-related route which is pretty cool.

Good Luck again, you two are the best.

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23 - M - Critical Relativist and Feminist (Equalist) - Canada

That was mostly a good video, but I feel that you totally overdid your apparent condemnation of facials (and although you didn't state it, cum swallowing).  That's just your personal editorial, not fact.  We women are NOT all of one opinion on this issue.  And amazingly enough, my opinion is vastly different from yours.  I very much enjoy facials.  I also enjoy swallowing cum and i very much want him to cum in my mouth, not in my vagina.  The very last place I want him to cum is inside my vagina or anywhere near there.  Many other women enjoy the same things I do.  I'm not alone on this.  Oh, you also forgot to mention communication, communication, communication.  You can't even come close to having good sex if you don't know your partners needs.  Too many young people, especially young women, feel embarased to talk about their needs -- even to their partners!

........tinyclit has it right.........my lady and I have been together for almost ten years and I can count on one hand the number of times my dick has been in her vagina. She made me aware of what she wanted and what she expected our sex life was to be before we ever had sex the first time.
Our entire sex life is oral..........either sixty-nine or each in turn....and we could not be happier. She says she absolutely adores the feel of my dick swelling in her mouth just before I cum.....she says it is a HUGE turn on and I have to admit I am spoiled. Her technique is to bring me to the point of orgasm about four or five times....stopping just short each time then really deepthroating me when she wants me to cum.
Also, when I am performing oral on her.....her clit swells to twice its unaroused size and when she cums.....the liquid that runs ....rather copiously, I might add.....from her vagina ...is absolute AMBROSIA..........I dont know if it is the same liquid that is 'squirted' from the womens vaginas in the porn flicks .....but I wish I could bottle the stuff..........

She allows me to give her a facial once in a while....she says she enjoys the feel of the warm cum on her face.... and it is OK....but there is nothing like having my dick buried in her mouth while she strokes my balls while I cum.....

....it's all in what the both of you like.

@marki, Thanks marki, I'm the same way as your wife.  I knew I wasn't the only one!  You explained it well.

After having visited the referenced external website, it's quite a bite more sensible and less negative than the either Betty's video or the TED video.  And now that I have calmed down, I realize that I have actually neither asked for nor received a facial in over three months or so.  Yes, it's silly and messy, but that's why it's great fun -- when you're in the mood.  But I'd be really pissed if anyone said that there was something bad about swallowing cum.  I do that three or four times a week and I enjoy it very much.  Don't anyone ever even think of brainwashing my guy into thinking that I shouldn't want that.

We never said anything about swallowing cum ;)

"I see my body as an instrument, rather than an ornament." - Alanis Morissette

I've stayed clear of this one, til now.  From a personal point of view I do not want porn replicated on me.  Neither do I want any par of my body especially my face covered in goo.