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You have to engage your mind to fully engage your body and experience bigger orgasms. There's no such thing as a bad fantasy.
Fantasy
You ladies are so right about sexy, dirty fantasies. When I am running a fantasy in my head, I feel like I am a director of a movie. Each scene (props and actors) has to be planned just right or the whole thing falls flat and fails to get me off. When I find something that works, I keep revisiting it again and again, changing it slightly once in a while. I get inspired by erotic artwork (I love Betty's). I have had this fetish since I was about 13.
I agree with your ideas
I agree with your ideas about fantasies but, not to be a party pooper, there are some times when fantasies produce the very opposite effect. it's hard to know when one is afraid of those "dirty" t houghts and when those thoughts are actually replays of old traumatic events. if the fantasies are more like the former,it's important to get some help and trash them, resolve the nightmares, or turn them into usable images. if you are disgusted or afraid of those fantasies and don't address it, they will get in the way of your fabulous orgasms rather than enhance them.
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