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A Love Letter to Your Pussy (Especially Your Labia)

Thu, 02/11/2010 - 14:09
Submitted by Arielle Anker

Dear sweet friend,

First and foremost, although I have never had the pleasure of seeing it (which can, of course, almost immediately be remedied... butt I digress), I am so sure you have a beautiful pussy. I just know it. I'm picturing it right now, and imagining.... simply breathtaking. And breath-giving!

PLEASE do not get labiaplasty or vaginoplasty or any kind of genital-altering cosmetic surgery.

I understand your feelings. I recognize what you are talking about from myself - I, too, can at the worst times feel ashamed of my cunt (I usually use the word "cunt" for my own). I worry that it is ugly, asymmetrical, vulgar, messy, too large, too loose, etc.

With Blood Comes The Truth

Mon, 12/28/2009 - 13:56
Submitted by Arielle Anker

Let me begin with my mother, because - I begin with my mother. Had she not menstruated, I would not be here.

When I asked my mother what her period meant to her, she laughed.

"Not a whole lot now," she said, referring to the hysterectomy she had in her early 50's.

(At the time, she hosted a "Farewell to My Uterus Party". I asked the hospital to release her uterus in a jar for me - I wanted to have it on display at home in my apartment! When my mother requested a uterus doggie bag (bitch bag?) at the hospital, the surgeon balked. "But that's a biohazard!" he sputtered. That cracked us up.)

"What did your period mean to you, back when you were still a woman?" I teased my mother. "Fertility!" my mother answered.